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PLEASE HELP ME!!!
ok, i am felling bad ALL THE TIME becasue of something I DIDN'T EVEN DO! I was at this girl's house lets call her K. I went with two other girls lets call them KK and S. Well, im know as your everyday GOOD GIRL, who doesnt want to do anything wrong. but, once i got there, K, KK, and S were smoking, drinking, and wearing thongs that they STOLE. I R E A L L Y want to tell my mom about this. It is a month after the incedent and i can't live for 3 hours without thinking about it. I don't want to get the three girls in trouble even though i hate them for what they did, and don't want to socialize anymore. my mom asked why i wasnt hanging out with S anymore and i said they just aren't my type of ppl. The day of the incedent my mom asked if there were any drugs involved, she asked this b/c i havent hung out with these girls for about 2 years and i made a new group of friends who have my back alwasy and would never do things that they did. and they have changed A LOT!!! Me and my friend N are always thinkign about it. and i dnt want her to feel bad to. I know when im at this age i should not care, b/c i hate my parents... but im nto like that. i want to ahev gilmore girl moments and feel close. I want to be bffs so i can spill my guts to her, cause i always feel better in the end. our family vacations starts TOMORROW! and i cant look her in the eye without thiking about it. I keep on telling myself that i didn't do anything, or all the kids ahev at least ONE secret. but i feel bad. i ahe had MANY opportunities to tell my mom about it. but i got scared and never told her. But, that night while im crying myself to sleep, i wish i did. i had two dreams so far about this, one, they all got caught, b/c i told their mom's htey were doing it and they saw them smoking. The second, K (who supplied the ciggerates) quite. so, they all stopped. I really need some help, sorry this is so long. will rate a 5 to anyone who helps me with my problem.
*Jenna
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i think you should tell your mom or someone you can trust and feel comfortable talking about it with. just right your mom a letter or tell her about it on the phone if it is easier. you were so smart not to do the same as those 3 girls. have fun on the vacation xoxoxo
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The way I see it, you have absolutely nothing to feel bad about! You didn't do anything wrong at all, so why are you so upset about it? I applaud you for not wanting to hang out with these girls and realizing that what they were doing is wrong. You were simply caught in the wrong place at the wrong time, and got in the middle of a bad situation. But you didn't take part in it, so the other girls are the ones who have something to feel bad about. If you feel you need to discuss this with your mom, you definitely should. Next time you are talking about your friends or something, just say "The reason I don't hang out with those girls anymore is because they do a lot of bad stuff and I know its wrong." She'll probably ask what they do, and you can explain about the smoking and drinking and stealing. I know she'll be so proud of you for not getting involved in this kind of thing. Please try not to worry about this anymore! You didn't go anything wrong!! I hope this helps, if you need any more advice, just ask!
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You should tell your mom. She will understand why you had a hard time telling her. But she'll pround that you did tell her, and that you didn't take the offer. You will be so relieved if you tell her.
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first of all, you should be proud of yourself that you didnt follow the crowd and knew that it was wrong. although you want to have gilmore moments, its just a tv show and sometimes your mother has to be a parent and ont a friend. just tell your mom, whats the worst that can happy? she will be proud that you stood up to them and had enough courage to tell her
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You need to tell your mom.You will feel so much better! Just think , if you don't tell your mom you will keep thinking about it. The more things you tell your mom the more you two will be closer. I hope i have helped! IM me if needed Sportychicc9393
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Tell your mom anyways but ask her to keep it a secret because you don't want to get them introuble. Tell her that you had to tell her because you don't like keeping stuff from her and that you trust that she won't tell what you tell her not to.
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