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HELP ME I DONT KNO WAT TO CHOOSE


Question Posted Tuesday August 9 2005, 6:45 am

hi my names kayla and im 14 yrs. old. me and this boy named zach went out like a yr.ago.and we didnt last long.and now me and him are starting to talk again and we are getting along great!me and him were talking about getting to know each other and then mabe hooking up since we havent went out in along time! and me and him agree to make it work this time! and then we started talking about sex! and im kinda scared to! cause i start to think that if the condom breaks then im gunna get pregnant! i dont know what to do! i would get in so much trouble if i got pregnant since im only 14! but i really like him now that we atarted talking again! and i dont want to tell him no cause i want to make our relationship last! please help me on what i should do! and if i use a condom what the percent would be that i could get pregnant!

thanx alot! xoxo im me on xoxokaylaoxox91
always kayla


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pinksoccersox answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 6:08 pm:
I know that you want this relationship to work. But if you don't want to have sex don't! any guy who pressures you into it after you've said no or expressed your concerns isn't worth it! but if you really want to, most areas have health centers that deal with things like HIV, Aids, abortions, things like that. You can usually go there with out your parents approval or presence. They can perscribe you a birth control pill or patch. Other than that, use a condom. If it breaks there is really nothing you can do. There's always the morning after pill. You can take that up to 5 days after you've had sex and it will terminate any fertlization of eggs that occur. I believe you can get that at most drug stores or you local health center. This may depend on your state laws.
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karenR answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:49 am:
You are certainly right to have concerns. I have found some links for you to read and discuss with your boyfriend before you have sex.

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karenR answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:49 am:
You are certainly right to have concerns. I have found some links for you to read and discuss with your boyfriend before you have sex.

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