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Hi again, well thanks for your reply although you've been a bit harsh. But hey, it's up to you.
Yes, we men think with our dicks many times; that said, although mine would have something to say, it's not just lust that I feel for this other girl. I have eyes, like you, and I see women and sometimes you just like someone. I am sure it has happened to you, to my girlfriend and to most human beings around. That's okay. Now I don't think I would be having such a horrible time if it just were a matter of attraction. And that's what worries me.
Just try to image yourself in my position for a minute. You have a long, stable relationship with a boy. But the fire of passion has cooled and sex between you and him has lost a big part of its appeal. You still love him, but you can't get yourself to desire him the old way. I don't know if that can be restored, but if it can't, what hope is left for your relationship? Then comes the attraction to this other guy, and your world is upside down.
I guess that's what happened with me and my girlfriend; I already said that in my previous question, but please give me your opinion. Can a relationship work without a good sex life?
You're right about my girlfriend not being a bitch and a half :)
It's okay if you think of me as someone extraneous to feelings or sensitivity, but I know they're part of my equation, and if I had no feelings, I wouldn't have probably asked for advice here in the first place. It's not the first time I've suffered because of love; I know what it is to be in love and be dumped, and boy, it's the most effective diet ever.
Well, this was another of my long messages. When I start writing I cannot stop. Sorry about my bad english, but I am sure I made my point.
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Sometimes being harsh makes people stop and think.
This October will be my 7th anniversary with my husband *we only just got married*. We don't have sex as much as I'm sure he would want but he talks to me about it, he says that he would like me to be a bit more affectionate. I mean our case is different because I am quite ill with a brain mass so I don't think of sex like I used to,
Maybe you should talk to your girlfriend. I'm not sure if this is true for all woman but most that I've run into in the 2 years before turning 30 pretty much loose most of their sex drive... I don't know how old she is so I don't know if that applies. I'm told the sex drive comes back after one turns 30.
If you aren't happy with the sex life chances are your girlfriend might not be either.
Have you talked to her about it?
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