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who do i pick ??


Question Posted Sunday August 7 2005, 6:45 pm

okay so there are like 4 guys that im talkin to and i dont know who to pick...
#1 is gonna be a senior (and im gonna be a freshman) hes supersweet but everyone says he's using me and im too blind to see it.
#2 is one of my ex friends exes and he flirts with everyone and keeps tellin me he wants to date me. i wanna date him too but im just not sure.
#3 is just a big sweetie that i met at my friends church lockin and turns out hes a sophmore at my school. we really wanna get to know eachother and hes sucha sweetheart and always knows what to say and calls me all the time just to see whats up and all that .. and hell come up to me at school when im with all my freshmen friends and like put his arm around me and ahh its so cute
#4 is just ... amazing. the other night we were outside at like midnight with our foreheads just pressed together and hten he just kissed me. not like tongue er anything just a sweet nd simple kiss.. and he can always make me laugh .. ALWAYS. and he wants to get to know me and then he really wants to date me. he's like perfect. he'll hold my hand and do the sweetest things for me. yeah problem is - he's popular. i've never been like really popular but now all of a sudden all these guys wanna date me (im not namen all of em lol) and yeah. but like TONS of girls want him. and he's dated so many girls and he's cheated on a few but i mean i really like him i just dont wanna get hurt. he's absoloutly amazing .. but im not the only one who thinks so. he's also the kind of guy that has sex nd stuff .. and im still a virgin and i dont wanna loose it. how do i know if he likes me fer me er just wants me for a lil while until he gets what he wants

who should i choose ? please help me and tell me who i should choose and who not to choose and why please omg
xOo__MOUSiiE x3*


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MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday August 7 2005, 7:04 pm:
First of all, go you! lol, you got all these guys after you you lucky girl =P I wish I was you lmao!! Okay about..

#1- well it sounds to me like you don't have maybe as strong feelings for him as you do for #3 and #4. So maybe just kinda forget about this guy cause also if he's just using you.. why would you want him anyway?

#2- if he flirts with everyone- definetly don't. Cause then that screams possible cheater. He might have already cheated already before in his other relationships. Who knows if he could be trusting?

#3- Awwww he sounds like a total sweetie which is awseome! =P and it sounds to me like he really is just being sweet and he doesn't want to use you for anything more, if you know what I mean. He sounds like he would be a really great boyfriend whose caring and nice and etc. So I would seriously think about choosing this one! =)

#4- He sounds really nice and sweet too - but the " he has sex nd stuff " factor kinda brings up some thoughts. Is he just using you for sex? Will he be a pressuring kinda boyfriend who expects you to do stuff for him " if you really love him"? That might not be sucha good idea then. And if he's popular and all the girls want him - that's kinda not good either. He could cheat, and you even said so yourself, he's cheated on a FEW. not just one like where he realized his mistake and stopped but a FEW as in, he realized what he was doing each time and who knows if he'll do it again? So he's kinda a ehhh you'll need to trust him ALOT kinda relationship.


.. all in all, I think #3 sounds really great and sweet and nice. He's the one I would pick if I was in this situatioon, which I wish I was lmao! Once again, lucky! =P Anyways, I hope I helped you in making a choice! =)





Love,
MELii

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