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Ok, I like this guy that's about 2years older than me. I know him real well...he's one of my BFFs. How do I know if he likes me back, or hates my gut? I don't wanna embaress myslef when doing this, I still wanna be friends with him.... can you help?????
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Well, there are alot of ways to go about finding out if he likes you. Try sending friends to kinda poke around at it and see how he feels about you. You could hint alot that you like him and see what his reactions are. Or you could just flat our ask him. Personally if I had a girl I had know for a long time and was best friends with and I liked her and wanted to find out if she likes me back, I would definately send my friends and have them snoop around for me. And I would atleast show some kind of hint to her. Ultimately it is up to you, but I am just telling you the route I would go. And since he is one of your bff's then how is he hating your guts? I think even if you did tell him about your feelings, he isn't gonna ever hate your guts. Your friendship may strain a bit, but it will bounce back extremely soon afterward. Also when do tell him, be sure to say something along the lines of "I really like you, but just so you know, I will always be your friend and I don't want this to affect our friendship in any negative way."
Hey I hope this helps and you get your feelings out and he likes you back!
-Ryan
P.S. I think everyone is embaressed (or embaresses themselves) when they tell someone else they like them, so don't feel bad if you are! ]
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