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Question Posted Thursday August 4 2005, 1:35 pm

i'll answer them..
1. no i havent
2. its a long story but i talked to his friend
3. im 16 in a few days, he just turned 18 last month.. when we met i was 14 and he was 16. i wasnt going to leave my state to be with him..he was going to come here but things came up
4. well, we're together right now..we talk about more
5. when im 18 i want to. since he'll already be in college i want him to transfer, but if he cant ill try to live there
6. we both are.. its hard. we're about 8x that amount away from eachother
7. they just thought he could be lying about who he is.. which he could because you never know..but i HIGHLY doubt it.


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TheOldOne answered Thursday August 4 2005, 1:52 pm:
Since you've been with him so long, I'm guessing you've exchanged pictures and that sort of thing. You must have Googled him, too? If not, you should.

I can only guess, of course. But it sounds as if you've both thought about this pretty carefully. Maybe you should talk to him about finding a way to meet in person during a holiday, or something. Of course I have to advise you to be careful, to meet in a public place, and NOT to have sex; not until you're 18. That "crossing state lines" stuff can be very nasty. But since you're both seriously thinking about being together once you're 18, and you're making a big investment of time and feelings, I think it would be a good idea for you two to meet. Or at least talk on the phone, and try to work out plans to meet.

Two years is a long time to wait to be with someone! In college he'll probably face some temptations. You might face a few yourself in your last two years of high school. If you get a chance to speak, or meet face to face, I think that will give you two a better chance of making it.

And if there's some basic incompatibility between the two of you that will show up in a face-to-face meeting, it would be better to find it out sooner rather than later.

But I really hope it works out for you. I have a good feeling about you two. Of course, I don't know either one of you, so I'm just guessing, but I'm a romantic - I really want to see true love win out in the end. :D

I do hope that you two end up happy! And together if possible, but if not, still happy in the end.

If you should want to talk about this or anything else in the future, I'll be here. Best of luck!

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