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Ok I have a problem. You answerd my question about public school, except I just started talking to this guy. I thought he was going to be ok to hang out with, but he knows I have a BF, and the other day he started to kiss me. It kinda my fault in a way though, he was crying so I hugged him and kissed his forehead. Then he stoped crying and started to kiss me. I dont know how to make him leave me alone, and im afraid he will bother me at school.
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Ok... well did you stop him from kissing you? cuz if you didnt then... he might think you like him... and he might just try it once again... Just sit and talk to him... Say something like.. "Hey i know that this may sound a little crazy but i really need to get this out of my system... You know i have a boyfriend... i really like him... so with saying this i need to tell you that i just want to be friends and what i did by hugging and kissing you on the forehead was just because you were crying... I just want to be friends NOTHING more... I know i might have hurt your feelings just a little bit by saying that... but i dont like you like... i hope we can still be friends..." and just keep on talkin to him... im very sure that he probably will bother you in school but as a friend...
hope i helped
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ok. Well, you can tell him, that just because you hugged him and kissed him on the fore head wasn't because you were interested, but because you felt sry for him and wanted to make him feel better. and that you r in no position to be cheating on your bf and that you don't want to be with him as a bf just as a friend and nothing more, and that you stil want to be with your bf. Hoped this helped, and be very cautiously wiht the way that you say it. don't beat around the bush. Tell, me if n e thing goes wrong!
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ok dont be afraid that he will bother you in school.
just talk to the guy about what happened between you and that you two are ONly friends..and see how that works out.
you wont get beat up or raped over it, (in reference to your other question)
this is a common problem that a lot of girls go through and they dont get beat up or raped over it.
if it doesnt work when you tell him your ONLY frineds..inbox me again
-melissa-
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Honestly? I don't think this is a guy you want to hang out with. I mean, he KNOWS you have a boyfriend right? Even if he liked you THAT much he would at LEAST wait until you broke up with your boyfriend.
I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this. He deserves to know right? Wouldn't you want to know what's happening to him? Well, vice versa. Not only that but your boyfriend can help protect you. You don't have any feelings for that other guy right? And you love your boyfriend right? So then you should have no problem in takling to him about it.
Solution? Stop talking to this boy. Easy solution. Might be hard to get him off your back, but he will eventually if you don't budge. It's like bugging an older sibling. If they ignored you every time you tried to bother them, you'd get tired of them right?
Also, make sure you're never alone with him ever again. Always have a friend or your boyfriend with you.
If the problem persists you need to report it to an adult, counselor, teacher, etc. It's important that you get your space and it's important that the guy understands what "no" means.
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From what I understand, you just met him & he is already kissing you - even though you let him know you had a boyfriend. He sounds sleazy but that is just me. Try talking to him, telling him how you feel about what happened. When school starts & he is bothering you let someone know. I have been in a situration where I was harrassed so I know they should take care of him for you. Good luck hun! If you need anymore help lemme know.
xo Samantha
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