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my friends (long question)
okay... i have a bunch of friends but like NONE of them hang out together. i have two reallllllly good friends that kinda hang out w/each other but not as much. and i have 2 friends that me and them were like best friends in 6th grade and this year kinda seperated (in 7th) (i'm going into 8th) but we were still friends. and when i was hanging out w/other people the called me traitor and backstabber. I really want to be better friends w/them but i don't know i can please them b/c i have other friends too. i have another friend who is totally possesive and wont let me like hang w/other people she gets po ed if i don't talk to her ONE day! and thinks i've become racist or something. then i have some other friends and so like all together i have 4 or 5 different groups of friends and only 2 groups of them hang out together. and this year we have assigned lunch tables but i don't know which to sit with. my one friend doesn't mind, and my other i sat w/this year and the others i have no idea about! i have no idea who to hang w/like should i switch? one day w/some people next someone else?? please help will rate high!
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you sound like someone at my old school (hmm..) (LOL) but yea you shoult talk to each of them and let them know that you do have other friends and cannot please everyone all at once. so they shouldnt call you names and stuff b/c of something you cannot handle you know... let your friend who gets mad at you if you dont hang with her that day , let her know that you have other friends to please and you cannot spend your time devoted to just one person. you should make your frienda talk more so they'll all understand. you should definetly take turns spending time w/ each of your groups b/c that works even though they may still get mad at you but oh well, like i said you cant please everyone even though you dont want to loose your friends
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well i think i kinda know what you are going through. my like whole life i have always been best friends and dated guys that were like the popular, preppy football stars and this summer i started hanging out with all of the popular surfer/skater type guys and the two groups totally hate each other. they actually ended up getting into a huge fight like beating the shit out of each other. i finally made it clear that i was going to be good friends with both groups whether they liked it or not and started getting them to hang out and go to the same parties and stuff, and now that they know each other they are totally cool with each other. i think that you should just try to do stuff with people from all the different groups that you are friends with and let them get to know each other and im sure they will like each other and then you can all sit at the same lunch table. but if that doesnt work out, i think that you should deffinatly switch around and stay friends with all of them, you dont need to choose just one. hope i helped!
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