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My BF is causing problems again!
Hey, you answered my question earlier about my bf slapping my sister's ass and being rude and inconsiderate. Well now he caused problems yesterday. We always take my car racing because it is very fast and I love the thrill. But I am always careful when I race. I pick the spot, make sure there are no cars or cops around and I make sure the racing distance isn't too long. Well yesterday we went and my bf keeps acting like my car is his. He wants to add all this shit to it and I don't want it. Some of the shit he wants to do could cause my engine to blow up if it is driven too fast! So he was racing some punk on a road I told him not to go on. And after we beat them, my bf decided to get cocky and do a "glory" drive to show off. Well he was trying to pass the car we just beat and it was on a bumpy, rocky, country road and it was very narrow. We were neck and neck crossing over a bridge and the other car hit a pothole in the road and barely missed slamming into my car. I was PISSED!!! Then to make things worse it was my turn to race some stupid bitch. And when I started racing he started bitching at me about not shifting the gears fast enough, when I was doing it right! And I did end up beating them, but he wanted to try the race over again! I specifically told him that I'm not racing again, and he acted like he didn't even hear me. He rolled down my window and told the other car that we would race again. I drove off and rolled the window up and he started yelling at me and my twin sister. She bitched at him for yelling and then he got mad cause I took the "long" way back to the racing spot. And I was so stressed and upset, trying to hold back tears, that I almost hit another car and almost got pulled over by a cop if I hadn't of slowed down. He apologized and everything but the problem still exists in my head. I know this weird mood swing that happened yesterday was not because of just him being overly excited about racing. He doesn't even listen to what I want to do. When I get mad that's when he notices and he begs for forgiveness. I can't always deal with him being inconsiderate. So is there anyway that I can make my voice heard in this relationship before it is too late?
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hm..well i would be so upset that my bf put his fun in front of my safety, you know? so i would break up with him..especially because you've been having problems and stuff
well to answer your question..to get your voice heard..try stepping it up and putting your foot down. i know your doing this already..but do it more. he needs to understand that when you say "no" to anything..like him adding shit to your car, that you mean it!
honestly, i think when a relationship gets to this point..when its more fighting and dumb stuff like that..than getting along..that maybe its time to end the relationship.
this is what i think anyway..based from what you told me..but you know whats best..
i think to make your voice heard, he needs to want to hear it..you know what i mean? like you can tie him down and yell at him and stuff but it will just go in one ear and out the other...
so i hope something out of all this helped you out..im sorry if it didnt
feel free to inbox me again
-melissa- :)
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