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Question Posted Saturday July 23 2005, 10:25 pm

Ok well, theres this guy I really like...And weve dated before but then we were just really close...Then I guess you could say we became friends with benefits...The only thing is, we havent had sex...We just have oral sex or he fingers me and stuff...Anyway, I wanna have sex with him, its just that Im afraid that somehow my mom will find out, and of course the chance of gettin pregnant...Other than that Im ready and all...But another thing is that my period hasnt been regular...Like, it was a little bit ago, but now sometimes I go without it for 2 or 3 months...Which the last time he fingered me was in May, and I havent had my period since then...Could that affect it?...And do you think that since its not regular that I shouldnt have sex?...Because I know you miss it when you get pregnant, so Im not sure how I could tell or not if I dont get it...Sorry its so long...But any advice will deff. be appreciated!!! I rate..

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ncblondie answered Sunday July 24 2005, 12:39 am:
I doubt that simply having oral sex or fingered will have an effect on your period. However, there is a small possibility that you could get pregnant if some of his sperm finds it's way inside you. Since your period is irregular, I would be careful having sex since you have no way of knowing when you're ovulating. If you do decide to have sex, definitely use protection.

Short of taking a pregnancy test, there's not really a way to tell if you're pregnant. Do you have any other symtoms of pregnancy? Morning sickness (doesn't just happen in the mornings, mine hit in the mornings as well as late at night), frequent need to pee, appetite changes, cravings, more tired than usual, weight gain, breast tenderness, and more emotional than usual are all signs.

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x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 11:58 pm:
Ok well I'd say going that long without your period isn't normal unless you've gotten it within the last year or so! This probably isn't the case but I suggest you get a pregnancy test beacuse your "friend" might have jacked off and still had sperm on his hands that could've gotten inside you...I don't mean to worry you but I'd say it would be smart to check it out! Once you do the pregnancy test and hopefully find out it's negative then yes it's fine to have sex but i would get another test if you don't get your period for a while! h0pe i helped x0x *caitie*

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