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Friends Forever Or Just For Now


Question Posted Thursday July 21 2005, 11:47 pm

Hey,
My bestfriend is my crush i'm inlove w/ him and he's really nice to me, he said I was the prettiest girl in our class. Yet, the only reason he wont go out w/ me is becuase i'm not pretty enough for him. Please dont think he's a horrible guy because he's not i asked him if that is why he didnt want to go out w/ me and he said he doesnt want to sound mean but yeah thats y. Soo does this mean i'll never b able to b with him?, oh and he wants to b like my only friend but of course he can have other ones. Please Help Me this has been bothering me for quite some time now.
Thank U


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TheTeenGirl answered Friday July 22 2005, 12:00 am:
First off, thanks for asking me. I don't think that this guy is horrible, I think he might be playing around with your mind alittle bit. If the guy tells you that you aren't pretty enough, I think its only better off that you might plan on never being with him. He sounds like a shallow guy, and I don't want you to think that I'm not understanding, but I have a slight thought that you might not be understanding this. He said that you were the prettiest girl in class, but he won't date you because you aren't pretty enough. It sounds like hes trying to mess around with you so that you'll keep wanting him more. And I think he likes the attention. I'm sorry, but he doesn't sound like a good guy that you deserve, I think he needs to go out and try finding another girl he really likes and get messed around with, because he deserves it. If the guy says that you aren't pretty, do you really want to feel ugly with him? Because you will. You won't feel good about yourself if you be with someone who thinks that you aren't pretty. So, I'm sorry this wasn't too much of the answer that suits you, but I hope you get what I'm saying. Chances are that he'll ask you out and hopefully you'll remember what he said.



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