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hey.. so yea im 14 nd an outgoing kinda girl.. i always hav fun with my friends nd all that. heres the problem.. ive been goin out with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. i really like him, nd i kno he likes me. but, whenever we hang out, [which is pratically everyday] i always get shy around him, and im not myself. i get quite nd stop talking, which i NEVER do. my 2 closest friends are friends with him and 3 of his other friends, nd so am i. so my friend, jaime, asked him a while ago wut he likes about me. [this was before we were going out] he said i was pretty nd funny nd fun to be with.. nd id hav to agree with him on that one, but i changed, ever since we started going out. its not like hes my first boyfriend, ive hav several others nd hes the only one i get this way around. nd believe me when i say this, hes much more out going than i am, but he gets the same way around me. its so weird cuz when we were just friends, we never acted like this. we were always our crazy selves. that must sound bad .. like its better if we were friends, but i like him sooo much nd he likes me a lot too. but i just duno wut to do.. like i talked to him about it a few times, nd he said he just gets shy nd nervous around me. so i duno .. can u please help me? oh nd srry its long
thanks<3
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You guys are probably getting shy around eachother because you like one another so much. Since you guys are so close it just seems like you don't want to act crazy together, since it might be a little weird. But hey! He's been your boyfriend for four months, you have to start being yourself and be open with him. Act crazy, talk to him like you would usually do if you were with friends, say what ever is on your mind. Make sure you're comfortable with him first, or you won't be able to be your real self around him. I don't really know how to solve this problem besides talking to him about it, but you already did this. It's not his fault he's shy, though. Maybe you could start opening up and try to be less shy around him. This way he'll feel more comfortable around you and he'll be himself.
♥ Krissy
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