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i still love my x-boyfriend...
((13 female)) there's this boy that i met 2 years ago and we never really talked to each other because we don't live in the same town than i went out w/one of his friends and we started talking again..but me and his friend broke up and i fell for him..we went out but we didn't last very long but we still continued to care about each other..finally after we hung out at his house, basketball camp and stuff we started dating agin about 2 months later..once again we broke up..i know that we should just stay friends but it so hard cause we still both like each other (well he says he still likes me)..he says he broke up w/me cause we don't see each other enough but it doesn't matter to me cause i'd talk to him everyday on the computer and phone and every chance we could see each other we'd do that. i called him everyday but he called me like once. we fought all the time over the dumbest things. when the 4th of july came i went to his town for fireworks because my town doesn't have them. he was there and we kinda hung out but not really..he was w/his friends and i was w/mine. but there was one thing that bugged me so bad and it hurt me..his x girlfriend was there and he hung out w/her. i was so devestated..all i wanted to do was sit and watch the fireworks w/my boyfriend. about 2 days later he broke up w/me. i still love him. i know i should forget him..but i've tried to move on. there was someone out there that liked me and treated me soo good but i can't love him. my x boyfriend (ethan) was my first true love..and here i am still caring about him. my friends tell me to give up but they don't understand how i feel about him. i still love him more than anything in this world and no matter how long and hard i search there will never be anyone that i can care for at this age like i care for him. he's my best friend and my first true love. he was the first person i actually liked cuddling with and watching movies with. he was the first person i ever got butterflies when i was in the car on the way to his house. he was the first person i could look into his eyes forever. he was the first person that i could talk to on the phone who i never got tired of. he was the first and only person who can make me laugh without me even wanting to smile. i could have the worst day but when i'd talk to him somehow everything was perfect. please help me. what do i do if i still love him?
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Dear Still in Love
On one hand I agree with the others that you should talk to him. How ever have you ever thought, that maybe it wasn’t your x-bf you were in love with, but the idea that you had someone to love and to love?
You spoke of him being your first “True Love”; first of all, as romantic as it sounds to me that it is slightly misguided. I’m sorry if it sounds rude, but it’s the truth. Love, “True Love” (as you worded it) is something that can’t be found as easily as you describe your relationship had. Love will not just wait for you to come, nor will it show up on your doorsteps. Love is something that requires work (on both parties). You search for the right man for you. As painful as it to be alone, know this your still young (WAY YOUNG). In my personal opinion, (don’t take this the wrong way, I meant no disrespect) you should stop worrying about the whole bf/gf relationship you have going. Find a hobby or two, hang out with friends, and stuff like that. The teen years are for discovering WHO YOU ARE. It is ok, however, to dream about the your “True Love”, but don’t waste you life away one things that you want to happen, or that already have.
An even Wiser One than showed me this “Remember the PAST, Look to the FUTURE, & Live in the PRESENT. When one sacrifice one of theses or carelessly misuse them, he or she will never discover their TRUE IDENTITY,…”
I hope I helped, and I’m sorry if I offended you, that was never my attempt. I simple (as I could) try to show something that may help you. I could never give you a strait answer on what you should do on this matter, you are not a puppet (or at lest I don’t think you are) you must figure this one out on your own, all I can do is to try to guide you to a desirable path.
May you find what your desired aspiration. I leave you with this quote from a wise man who I have came to know. (I hope it helps); “To know all things, all one needs to do is ask One Who Knows”
Best of Luck.
~Teen Guru~
P.S. let me know if I helped in anyway.
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i think that you should talk about it with him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels *****busy***** advicegal26
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