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i am looking for a nice girl to be a couple with who i know will not cheat on me, but all the girls around here seem like they cheat on their bf, like my friend matt, please give me some advice on how to find the right girlfriend. thanks jordan, p.s. i will give you 5 points
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Try finding a girl that you have common interests with. This way you're not just sitting around staring at each other, waiting for the other one to say something. A relationship where you're also friends is a wonderful thing to have.
Look at the girl's past when you decide that you want to date her. If she has a history of cheating on boyfriends, she'll most likely do it to you also.
When you decide to get serious, sit down with the girl and tell her up front that you are looking for a serious, committed relationship and make sure that is what she's looking for also. If she's not looking for a serious, committed relationship, let her go no matter how much you like her. A relationship where both parts of the couple are looking for 2 different things will go nowhere.
Make a pact with the girl that if either of you feels that you want something else, you will split up rather than cheat. It's better to be hurt by a gentle break-up than to learn the one you care about is cheating on you. I've made this pact with every guy I've dated, and it seems to help. I also have this pact with my husband.
Last but not least, don't be in a hurry. Too many times we jump into relationships simply because we want to be with someone, and nearly always the relationship ends in failure. Take your time to find the right girl, one that will be true to you. Usually when you stop looking so hard, you find that special someone right in front of you.
Hope this helps. Good luck in finding your special girl.
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