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16/f.
i went 2 a party a few nites ago, and anyway ther was this lad ther who was sittin really close 2 me and flirtin wit me loads. anyway hes really geeky and weird, but apparently hes really in2 me! i dont kno wot 2 do, i mean i dont hate him, but i dont fancy him either, n if i did eva do anything wit him every1 wud laugh and my popularity wud go down the drain, but at the same time i dont want 2 b mean! wot shud i do?
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Well all you have to do if you don't like him is just like sit and tell him ya know? All you can do. And if you're saying you don't like him to make yourself believe it then thats slack. Why must you be a sheep and follow the pack jus to be happy and remain "cool". Define cool for me please. Im not bein nasty or harsh. Im jus sayin if you are then be real and come on man. But if you really dont like him and stuff then ye jus talk to him about it!
Hope i helped,
Anthony
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This is just my opinion..
i think you should get to know him. You might accutally learn to like him, either as a friend or more. Its sad that your worring about your popularity, which is getting in the way of getting to know him. But if you can get passed the whole popularity and everybody laughing you should get to know him more...so what if he is different from you and your friends...looks, and geekiness shouldnt prevent you from getting to know him. thats being judgemental... hope i helped
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If your popular, People wont care, mayb youll start a new thing instead, just show them you dont care what they think, they respect you, your popularty wont go down, only if you make it
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1. I just love the way you talk!!!
2. Tell him how you feel say you just want to be friends and would like to hang out some time!
3. Break it to him easy!
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Well If you dont have feelings for him but dont have a problem with him you should tell him that you just want to be friends. And it shouldnt matter if your popularity would go down or not it is the nice thing to do. It doesnt matter what others think of you.
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If he is a nice boy, then there is no reasons why you 2 can't be friends. You don't have to like him as anything more than you don't want to.
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Who says you have to do anything? Its not like your obligated to fancy him back, so you really don't have to change the situation. The thing you really have to be careful about is giving him mixed signals- if he thinks you're into him he might try it on. Make sure you aren't giving him cause to wonder, but you don't have to be mean or rude about it.
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