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Ok..So Me & this kid Chris went out for like a month & then he broke up with Me bc he felt like it wasnt fair to me bc he liked 2 other girls. This was about 3 weeks ago. We still talk alot & I still really like him. He said he still liked me too but didnt wanna go out w/Me right now bc he feels bad bc he likes the other 2 girls also. What do you think I should do/say to him about this ? PlZ hElP !
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if you really wanna go out with him explain that it is ok that he likes two other girls but just as long as he doesnt anything with them well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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ok....sweetheart
YOU DONT NEED HIM! i kno if you do like him you kno u probably shouldnt he is a player. he probaby just wanted to have sex with you. ( well i mean if you did) and those other girls are probably dont kno about his (feelings for 2 other girl) probablem. I mean you can still be friends with him whatever you think is right but just dont try to get urself in a relationship with him.
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It's very good that he was wise and kind enough to be honest to you. He has potential to be a good catch some day.
But not now.
Don't wait around for him. He's not ready, you're not ready. He seems like a good guy, but you never know. He might straighten up later, he might not. But you only have one life, and you don't have time to waste it on a boy who, while great, may not be right for you.
On the other hand, don't swear him off entirelty either. Love is confusing, and it can really mess you up. Everyone's entitled to be unsure. Give him some time. If he gets over those other girls--if he figures out what he wants to do and distances himself from them--and you're not otherwise involved with someone, feel free to give him a chance. But don't throw other boys aside just becuase he's ready, either. Think of it this way--he just stepped out of line. He can step back in, but if there's anyone in front of him, he'll have to wait his turn.
I know it's hard. But it's also life. Learning to deal with this will prepare you for later... and if all else fails, you got a good friend out of it, right? In high school (I get the impression you're in junior high or high school), you need all the (true) friends you can get.
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I think you should respect his decision. He was nice about the whole situation and he cared enough for you to make sure that he wouldn't hurt you. That was a very generous thing for him to do. I know you're probably wondering what I'm talking about.
Most guys would just break up with you and not tell you why. Or to make matters worse they'll cheat on you so that way they know you'll get mad at them and call it quits. This guy seemed to give you and honest explanation of why he didn't want to go out with you anymore. It really isn't fair to you if he likes other girls. You should be the only one he thinks about and likes. If it were me, I wouldn't want to date someone who wouldn't give their whole heart to me. He's doing you a favor.
I realize that you like him a lot and I know it hurts but think about it. You're better off without him. He says he doesn't want to go out with you, don't force him to. He probably needs you as a friend right now. So continue talking to him and supporting him unless that's too hard for you to do. Because sometimes it's hard to be just friends with a guy you really like. He's probably at a state of confusion right now. Liking a number of people is often hard to deal with so he will definitely need someone there for him. And maybe if you support him and listen to what he says he'll start to consider going out with you again. I can't promise that though. All guys are different. Hang in there! Everthing should be okay. And if you need anything let me know!
Love,
Mandee
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You shouldnt wait around for him you should see if you like any other guys and if he desides he does like you and only you, you might want to go back with him u might not but if you wait around it will make him think that you will always be waiting for him and he can just mess around with other girls and he can always fall back on you.
*Kell REKO*
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