i was wondering what are some signs/signals/hints (whatever) that you and your gf/bf should break up, or go on a break?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Meags227 answered Monday July 11 2005, 8:16 pm: Here are some of the ones I can think of: You fight more with each other, and don't get along as well. One of you cheats on the other, or does something they know the other would not approve of. One of you breaks their promise(s), especially more than once. You aren't attracted to him/her anymore, or at least not enough to want to be with them. You spend less and less time together and talks less.
If you want more signs/signals/hints, then ask couples who are on a break or who have broken up. They will have their reasons, and if they don't then that is sad.
I think that you will honestly know (with or without the help of these signs) if you should take a break or break up. Something will be nagging you in the back of your mind (or "heart") and even if you try to convince yourself that you should stay together, it will stay there and not go away. That is the best way I can explain it. And I can also say that you probably shouldn't ask your friends. If you do want to talk to them, then don't only go by what they say. Listen to yourself. Hope I helped!
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