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Question Posted Saturday July 9 2005, 4:59 pm

well ive been single for a long time and i like having a boyfriend i feel a sense of protection and stuff and so my best friend has been trying to hook me up with guys she knows from her school (im 13/f) and there is this one guy and we barley even know eachother but he likes me a lot and he tells everyone he likes me and just last nite my friend showed me his pic and i judge people by their looks but not with certain guys and anyways he rele isnt that cute and everyone says im really pretty and im not being prude but i dont know what to do bcuz i really want to get to know him but i dont know what other people will think bcuz i care about what people think its just me but i kinda like him but i really wanna get to knoe him better..what should i do?

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TheTeenGirl answered Sunday July 10 2005, 3:16 pm:
I understand that you'd like to have a boyfriend right now and everything, but maybe from your best friends' school isn't the best place because you can't get to know them if they're different schools. It honestly sounds like fake hook-ups with guys to me. I think it will be a long time until you get a boyfriend thats serious with you and serious about being with you. And when you push that serious and protection in your life with someone, it won't happen. You're young, and this isn't going to sound good, but you've got to have your fun as a single girl, do fun things for yourself other than guys. Sure, be with this guy, but let what happens, happen, but don't push at it. Thats my key to finding love, you don't spend your life as a young girl chasing it, it will come around and get you before you know it. Its what happened to me, I spent my 5th grade year trying to find a perfect guy, and every guy I dated in that grade, were jerks. So, I stopped and just picked up on my school work, and now, here I am, 14 years old, and I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a year now. I don't know what will happen, but I never saw this coming. I concentrated on school and friends, and now I have them all. I know this answer wasn't what you had in mind, but I am hoping that you'll understand me after trying it if you do.





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