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..what should i do
hey i havee a questiionn...see ive been bestfriends with this qirl for about 2 years and ii told her everythinq i knew,our friiendship was qreatt, for awhilee..she never lied or anythinqq..and she was always thier for me whenever i neededd advicee and when my b./f at the time cheated on me or lied to me...and i could trust herr..andd i told her everythiinqq..but its like she never told me anythinq about herr its like she coulden even tell me when she liked someone..and i thouqht thats what bestfriends..soo well thorouqht out the 2 yrs of our friendshiip we only qot in 2 fiiqhts we never fauqht andd..then we qot into a huqqee fiiqht and she became friends with some qirl that she knew i hated with a pasion for so many differnt reasons..and me and my bestfriend even qot in a fist fight with this qirl and she always promised me that she woulden be friends with her and after we qot into this fiqht she..became friends with this qirl..well after that me and herr made up and we became bestfriends aqain it took me awhile 2 actully look my my friend the same b/c of what she did to me,..andd i asked her how coudl she of did that 2 mee..and after that out friendship started qoinqq downhill..she always lied to me..she always made up excuses for not wantinq to spend the niite or stuff like that..its like she never wanted to come over my housee..our friendshipp was slowy dyinqq and..i coulden even look at her the same she started treatinq me like shit and everythime i wanted to talk to her about somethinq that was botherinq me she shruqqed it off and said ohh here we qoo aqaiin..it was really qettinq to the point were i didne even want to be friends anymore..and then my birthday party was cominqq up and she always came and she made up some bullshit lie and diden show up..she said she coulden leave her house but i founf out she left anywayss..and that hurt so badd..shes supposed to be my bestfriend and she coudlen even come 2 my bday party wheneverr i come 2 hers every yearr..no questions asked..soo i had 2 qirls my other friends saty the nite the nite of my party and..its like..(lacey..my so called bestfriend)...qot mad /c ihad new friends..and she wrote in her xanqa an online journal..that she was sorry and it was her fault and i replkyed back sayingg..im tried of this i cant see us beinqq friends im tried of always forgivinq u ..friendss arent supposed to treat eahcother like shitt..andd i was kindaa meann..b/c i was madd..and laterr on tonitee she was over that qirls house that she promised she woulden be friends with and she made a info saying she was thier and stuff..and how she was her bestfriend..and then heres the bad part she put up an away messaqe sayinq..that she was havinq so much fun w/ this qirl and she put haha what we did with david..and davids some boy that i used to qo out with for a year that i was madly in love w/...he broke my heart so many times and she always promised that she would never qo with him and she seen me cry over him soo many diff times..andd now she does this to me..i coulden belive it i stated ballinq..she knows i still love david soo much even tho he breaks my heart and cheats on me..and im still in theprocess of qettinqq over himm..but ill always have that feelinqq..well my real question is, should i just forqet about her and let her do her own thiinq b/c true friends dont doo this..and i know it will be hard b/c weve been the best of friends fr 2 years and she knows everythinqq about me and we do have aalot of memories..orr should i try to talk to herr one last time and make our friendshiip workk..aqaiin..sorry soo lonq..thanks alott<3
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Well no offence but this girl sounds like a bitch, but since you too have been bestfriends for so long and have many memories together I'd give it another try. Talk to her and let her know how you feel. Ask her why she never wants to come over and why she makes excuse. Let her know that you'd still like to be friends, but you don't deserve to be treated like shit and if things don't change then you don't want to be friends anymore. And if you two get things worked out and she still continues to be a bitch, don't give her anymore chances. Goodluck and let me know if you need anything else !
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