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Well my name is Stacy, I am 16 years old and I live in Washington state. I like to hangout with friends, have fun and talk to my beautiful boyfriend :) Anyways, I have recently made a screenname for you so if you need some advice and don't have time to post and wait for me to answer then you can IM me on that screenname. Do not IM me on my personal one for advice, only the advice sn. Here it is --- >> x0o ADViCE F0R U
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Member Since: July 5, 2005
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Last Update: July 14, 2005
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hey..

This may sound weird, but how do you give head, like the motions and all and what to do.And when hooking up is it a good idea to make circles with your tonuge?

Thanks so much!

IM me if you'd like to know some tips.

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hello. can you tell me what to do if i go down a boys pants? thank you

IM me if you'd like to know some tips on what to do.

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I wanted to no wut brand of tampons work good for a 13 year old who has never used them before....

I'd try Tampax Pearl.

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hey. i kno this might sound weird, but could you tell me like how to give head and a hand job like the motions and what to do.

And also what to do when going down a guys pants like how and what to do.

Sorry i just really need help on how to do these things and what to do. thanks

IM me if you want some tips.

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Okay...this might seem strange but how do I get a bigger but? I mean..I got the boobs BELIVE Me..lol but I need like aome exersises or sumthun..THANKS BABE!

I'm not sure but I would like to know too lol. Gaining a few pounds might work ? Sorry, I couldn't help. Goodluck!

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hey well theres this guy i went out with we broke up a couple of times for no reason but we like each other alot but we broke up a month ago and now he likes this new girl but she doesnt like him and i still really like him but hes always talking about her and really likes her but he talks to me like he likes me and leads me on then the next day lets me down telling me hes gonna ask her out so it really stinks can you help me please?

Hes surely not worth your time if hes tells you hes gonna ask another girl out. Forget him, theres a million other guys out there !

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Me and my boyfriend broke up recently but it was about 3 weeks ago.I can't get over him whatsoever..im afraid i never will.Is there anything i can do to get over him ? please !
I am female and 14 years old.

Unfortunately, theres nothing you can do to get over him. Eventually the feelings will fade. But until then I'd suggest meeting some new guys, or doing something that is fun and will take your mind off of him. Goodluck !

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okay--theres this kid Scott..and i`ve liked him for about 7 months--and we`ve gone out but it didnt work out--he was my first true love and idk what to do--if i should tell him how i feel or if i should just keep it to myself--


pleasee help

Well first you need to look at the reason(s) why is didn't work out in the first place. And if its nothing and is resolvable then yeah you should go for it. You can't deny love :) Goodluck

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ok, so i've liked this guy for over a year and i guess he likes me too (well thats what i've heard). The only problem is that im a freshman and hes a senior. He doesnt wanna go out with me because he thinks im too young for him. We have held hands during movies and whatever and we even made out (but he was drunk) I've heard that when your drunk you say everything that you feel and he kept telling me how pretty and beautiful I was and how he wanted to make-out with me and everything. He even tried to go under my shirt but i didnt let him.When hes not drunk he wont say he really likes me and all that stuff he'll only say i look nice or something. So im best friends with his younger sister whos a sophmore and last week i text messaged him nd was like ''do u wanna hang out tonight?'' and he said ''no i dont think we should because its ruining your relationship with my sister (even though me and his sister dont think it is at all)'' But then last night he text messaged me and was like ''I think we should hang out tomorrow'' OKay, so what i need advice for is what do u think i should do. should i just move on and forget about him or should i keep playing his little games and see if we end up going out?

I think you should move on. I've been through the same thing before and its just not worth it. Chances are, because he is a senior and you are a freshman, that you won't end up going out. If I were you I'd just go for someone whos in your age range. (And when I say that I mean it in the nicest possible way) Let me know if you need anything else!

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heyy im 13 nd so is this girl nd my friends

well theres this girl who lives near me and she thinks i am her best friend. Whenever me and my friends go out she always puts these away messages that are talking about how we are bad friends towards her and she always makes her mom get into our buissness so she can do things with us. Its so annoying. We cant take it anymore. She tries to fit in to much also. She is always saying that she listens to afi, taking back sunday, thursday and those bands when she doesnt know any songs. My friends and I can not deal with this anymore and we need to find a way to tell her without making her cry because she is veryy sensitive.

Well if she is sensitive there really is no right way to say it. Every thing is probably going to hurt her. Just tell her that you can't hangout anymore. And if she asks why just say personal reasons that you don't wish to discuss. I know thats mean, but its a lot nicer than most things that you could say.

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ok well .. i really like this boy cameron and i liked him for months now .. but every time we hang out we are with other people and usually one of my good friends kerry .. it really seems like kerry likes him a lot and even camerons little sister marry thinks so too .. yet my friend kerry keeps telling me she doesnt and even all my friends and her ex boy friend thinks she does .. so i dont know what to do about this .. should i talk to her even though i have and she tells me she doesnt even though it seems like she reallllllllllly does or should i leave it alone? .. please help!!

thanks .. x0 confusedd

Talk to her one more time. Ask her if she likes him or has any feelings what-so-ever for him. If she still insists that she doesn't then say "Well then would if be okay if I go for him?" or whatever you'd like to say.

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theres this boy i really like. we're friends, but it feels like when ever we talk, we grow farther a part, its hard to make a deep conversation with him. we're really good friends though and i could almost tell him anything. i like him so much since like march, he probally has no idea.. lots of people even say that we should go out, but i really dont know how he'd react, someone asked him if he liked me & he said kinda, but he sorta likes any girl.. i really don't talk to him much in person just online, so i really can't flirt with him or anything but i really like him, do u have any suggustions for our friendship to be stronger & i'll have a better chance with him & idk how i should approach him.. he pretty much says yes to anybody, & we're going to different schools next year, so i really want a chance with him before its too late

You should hangout with him more often. Next time you talk to him ask him if he wants to hangout. Go do something that you both like and make sure you as well as him are having fun. And that will give you a great opportunity to flirt and show him that your interested. When you both are ready to part from hanging out tell him that you had a ton of fun and that you'd like to hangout again sometime !

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hi i'm 13 and i'm afraid to make out cuz i think i'm gunna mess up or something can you help me overcom emy fear...i guess:-/

signed afraid gurl

My first time ever making out I was scared as hell. I was very nervous because I'd never done it before, but after we started making out it really wasn't that bad. Don't be afraid that your gonna mess up because thats when you will mess up. Just try not to be afraid and everything will go just as planned. And plus there is no right way to makeout, and you can't really mess up ! Just be sure your not sloppy. Goodluck !

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okay well when we were movin out of our house we stayed with friends nd they have 5 more-VERYY HOTT- nd the oldest one Marcus he is 15 and im 13 now an he is gorgues and before we moved in with them i had a HUGE crush on him. well ived lived with them for like 2 months and i think im in love..i think as his other brothers as like bros to me but him as more then a bro..is that weird? and he goes out with this girl but idk if he really into her but ne ways i think i love him should i think of him like that. oh plus i moved away but we still talk online and him and my bro hang out sometimes on weekends.. should i forget about him? like i cant get him off muh mind..

I don't think its wrong for you to think of him like that .. and I deffenitly don't think you should forget about him. You should talk to him and see how he feels about you. Don't express your love to him just yet, but if he shows interest in you then you should show interest in him. Goodluck !

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okay well this all started when i went outt with this guy named mitchell and like he had to move to nebraska.And like after he moved he broke upp with me and like i was really upset soo i decided i was gonna go outt with his best friend clayton.And like me and Clayton have been going outt for almost two months now and like I still like mitchell and he still likes me and like i dont know if i should break up with clayton and go outt with mitchell and like never gett to see him or if i should like just go withoutt both of them.I really like both of them.And i guess one time clayton told mitchell i was a little overweight!!And soo like i have no clue on what too do!Please give me some advice

Well, in my opinion I don't think you should have went out with his friend. But anyways, I deffenitly don't think you should go out with both of them. If I were you I'd just stick with Clayton because you aren't gonna be able to see Mitchell anyways. If you don't mind having a long distance relationship then go for Mitchell. Just go with your heart ! Goodluck.

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Alright.. i went to my friends birthday party on saturday .. and 2 gurls showed up late .. and one of the gurls boyfriend broke up with her and she was crying and EVERYONE was going down to the boys friends house that he was at... and even the gurl that threw the party was going... and well the gurl that through the party started walking back home and so did half of the other people.. but 4 people stayed to listen to what the gurl (the one that got broken up with) was saying.. and we werent walking to the boys friends house either.. because the gurl that threw the party said we werent allowed and that would be rude to leave.. so we just stood there to finish listening to what the gurl was saying because shes like one of our BFF! but then the gurl that threw the party starting yelling and everything !!!! because she thought we were leaving.. so she got mad at us .. i was gunna leave cause i hate when people are mad at me ... i cant stand it.. so before i left i went and told the gurls mom i was leaving and her mom said wait.. and she got the gurl that threw the party.. and tried to make her talk to me .. but she wouldnt talk to me and i started crying so me and 2 of my friends left (she was mad at them too) and also before we left she was talking bout us to everyone ... it was a swimming party ...and her and everyone but me and my 2 friends were on one side of the pool.. and we were on the other..i also hate when people talk bout me too !!! so can you help me!! i dunno if i should talf to her or not !!! i mean we WERE like BEST FRIENDS but i dunno.. best friends dont talk bout eachother behind there backs.. and also a best friend wouldnt get mad at me for something like that !!! !so should i try and talk to her!?!!?!?! THANKS !!

Yes, you should talk to her. Just let her know how you feel. Tell her that you don't want a friend that is going to talk about you behind your back. Don't ruin your friendship over something so minor. Goodluck !

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ok this is kinda hard to explain but i have a friend who likes this boy and he loves her and everything ..but she treats him like crap and he dont kno if he can take it..i like this boy alot but i dont wanna ruin muh friendship with my girl friend ..he likes me tew ..so what do i do ..do i go out with my friends boy or do i just leave him to suffer with her?

My answer is no, you should deffenitly not go out with her boyfriend. True friends don't do that, no matter what, even if they say its okay. Thats just messed up. But you don't have to leave him suffer with her, just talk to her and let her know that she doesn't treat him right. He really needs to talk to her too and tell her how he feels. Let me know if you need anything else !

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I just had my birthday party today, and it didn`t turn out too good. Everything was perfectly fine until my two friends showed up late, and one of them was crying. Here, her boyfriend just broke up with them .. but they were only going out with like 2 weeks or something and she was making a big deal out of it. More than half my party went with the two girls and started to follow them to the boy`s house who lives down the street. I got mad and started flipping out bc everyone was just going to leave my party and go off with them !! I mean, wouldn`t you be mad, too? So then everyone started to come back to my house, everyone but my 4 friends. I hollered at them again and said like "Fine go off and leave the party go ahead but don`t come back to expect us waiting for you," so they came back too but we were all in a fight then. My two friends went back to their house. I made up with my one friend bc she begged me for forgiveness, and i guess i`m friends with one of the others girls now, but now my friend who broke up the boy is really mad at me. she said that i was never there for her and now she is just figuring out who her true friends are [trying to say i`m not one of them] and then she told me that the boy who i like, that she hopes he hurts me. That really hurt me. So now I just don`t know what to do. This gurl will probably turn half my friends against me. But I don`t know if i should stay mad at her or tell her i`m sorry. I mean i`ve kind of been mad at this girl for a while, bc she has been driving me nuts the way she talks about boys, and how she lies. And also, i don`t know what i should do about my other friend. she is REALLY mad at me and i`m pretty mad at her. about half an hour b4 my party ended she got up and left. she didn`t even say good bye. She had on my card, 'Best friends is a promise, not a label.' and then she told me that she broke that promise. I just don`t know what to do, if i should try to be friends with these girls again or stay mad at them and not be friends. Please help me with what to do !!

I don't think you should ruin your friendship over that. You should really try and be friends and work things out. In my opinion, the problem is minor. But thats just my opinion, you go with what you feel is right. Hope I helped !

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Okay the thing is that I went to camp and met some people there and they live like 2 hrs away from me. and we met them up not to long ago but we were visiting were they lived (6 flags) only they live about 20 miles away from there and we met them up there and they introduced me and some of my friends to some of there friends (my friends are all girls)(there friends are all guys) well I like one of their friends named Tyler and I didn’t think he liked me but when we left we called one of his friends Ray (who was 1 of them we met at camp) and ray said that Tyler really really liked me a lot and he said that if I lived in his city he’d ask me to be his g/f and we both like each other a whole lot and scene I have been home from visiting them he is all I can think about and I wont get to see him for a long time because they cant visit me until the middle of august and I’ve been sick to my stomach thinking about how I wont see him for a long time and I don’t know what to do I am acting so depressed. what should I do?

Age-14
gender-female

Well, how old is he and can he drive ? If not I'd just talk to him on the phone and go out with him. And if he doesn't wanna go out because you live that far then tell him that you can find rides to come see him. If you have older friends or know other people who can drive then I'd just have them take me up there, because 2 hours isn't anything. Let me know if you need anything else !

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hey i havee a questiionn...see ive been bestfriends with this qirl for about 2 years and ii told her everythinq i knew,our friiendship was qreatt, for awhilee..she never lied or anythinqq..and she was always thier for me whenever i neededd advicee and when my b./f at the time cheated on me or lied to me...and i could trust herr..andd i told her everythiinqq..but its like she never told me anythinq about herr its like she coulden even tell me when she liked someone..and i thouqht thats what bestfriends..soo well thorouqht out the 2 yrs of our friendshiip we only qot in 2 fiiqhts we never fauqht andd..then we qot into a huqqee fiiqht and she became friends with some qirl that she knew i hated with a pasion for so many differnt reasons..and me and my bestfriend even qot in a fist fight with this qirl and she always promised me that she woulden be friends with her and after we qot into this fiqht she..became friends with this qirl..well after that me and herr made up and we became bestfriends aqain it took me awhile 2 actully look my my friend the same b/c of what she did to me,..andd i asked her how coudl she of did that 2 mee..and after that out friendship started qoinqq downhill..she always lied to me..she always made up excuses for not wantinq to spend the niite or stuff like that..its like she never wanted to come over my housee..our friendshipp was slowy dyinqq and..i coulden even look at her the same she started treatinq me like shit and everythime i wanted to talk to her about somethinq that was botherinq me she shruqqed it off and said ohh here we qoo aqaiin..it was really qettinq to the point were i didne even want to be friends anymore..and then my birthday party was cominqq up and she always came and she made up some bullshit lie and diden show up..she said she coulden leave her house but i founf out she left anywayss..and that hurt so badd..shes supposed to be my bestfriend and she coudlen even come 2 my bday party wheneverr i come 2 hers every yearr..no questions asked..soo i had 2 qirls my other friends saty the nite the nite of my party and..its like..(lacey..my so called bestfriend)...qot mad /c ihad new friends..and she wrote in her xanqa an online journal..that she was sorry and it was her fault and i replkyed back sayingg..im tried of this i cant see us beinqq friends im tried of always forgivinq u ..friendss arent supposed to treat eahcother like shitt..andd i was kindaa meann..b/c i was madd..and laterr on tonitee she was over that qirls house that she promised she woulden be friends with and she made a info saying she was thier and stuff..and how she was her bestfriend..and then heres the bad part she put up an away messaqe sayinq..that she was havinq so much fun w/ this qirl and she put haha what we did with david..and davids some boy that i used to qo out with for a year that i was madly in love w/...he broke my heart so many times and she always promised that she would never qo with him and she seen me cry over him soo many diff times..andd now she does this to me..i coulden belive it i stated ballinq..she knows i still love david soo much even tho he breaks my heart and cheats on me..and im still in theprocess of qettinqq over himm..but ill always have that feelinqq..well my real question is, should i just forqet about her and let her do her own thiinq b/c true friends dont doo this..and i know it will be hard b/c weve been the best of friends fr 2 years and she knows everythinqq about me and we do have aalot of memories..orr should i try to talk to herr one last time and make our friendshiip workk..aqaiin..sorry soo lonq..thanks alott

Well no offence but this girl sounds like a bitch, but since you too have been bestfriends for so long and have many memories together I'd give it another try. Talk to her and let her know how you feel. Ask her why she never wants to come over and why she makes excuse. Let her know that you'd still like to be friends, but you don't deserve to be treated like shit and if things don't change then you don't want to be friends anymore. And if you two get things worked out and she still continues to be a bitch, don't give her anymore chances. Goodluck and let me know if you need anything else !

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