Hey Mandie. I've just recently realized that I am in love with my best friend. Don't worry, I'm a guy and she's a girl. I've all of a sudden become crazy about her and I don't know what to do. She has a boyfriend, but according to her, things aren't too serious, and they are going nowhere. I want to be with her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, but even if things didn't work, I don't think it would hurt. I don't exactly know how to tell her how I feel or get her to like me, what should I do? She also won't take me seriously if I do, so how do I show her I'm for real?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mandie answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 2:32 am: um. you mentioned you wouldn't really be hurt if you didn't get her..thats good because everything is pretty 50 - 50 these days. but...tell her you are serious and keep on pursisting that you are and she will finally realize it. if her and her boyfriend arn't going anywhere...why are they still together? possibly she is saying that because she doesn't want to hurt you, but hopefully she isn't. just keep it real with her and keep telling her the truth and one day it'll all pay off. hope i helped a little. :) [ mandie's advice column | Ask mandie A Question ]
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