hey beaton! okay well here's my problem: so i have this great boyfriend who treats me very well but something is missing and i cant help but think of another guy! so i have this guy friend who im like BEST friends with! we love the same things and i can talk to him about everything and anything! he understands me and i understand him! i love our friendship and i cherish it very much but i cant help but want there to be something more between us! i really do think we would be amazing together! and i can HONESTLY say that i really do love him!!!!!!
whenever he tells me about other girls he thinks are hott and the first time he saw boobs (a couple of days ago, lol) i cant help but get jealous! i mean why cant he just like me like that and be interested in having a relationship with me! once a while ago i told him that i used to like him and all he said was, oh thats why you would always ask me about _________ (ex gf)! thats ALL he said! nothing else! im pretty sure he doesnt like me the same way i like him but i really want something to happen between us! i really do love him! and i know if that doesnt work out between us we will always be friends! nothing could come between us! i love him!
Becuase you have a boyfriend, this makes the situation even harder to work with. You don't want to dump your boyfriend for something you dont know for sure can/will happen.
If I were you, I would keep it low, try the little things to get the one guy to notice you, without cheeting or feel like you are cheeting on your boyfriend. You never know, maybe he just wishes to become friends, maybe more. Just let fate take it part.
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