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a friend
i have a friend...well actually she's my godsister.she's known me since i was 7 years old,so we are really close.she's 13 years old,she just recently turned 13 years old.she's real cool to hang with.she spends the night a lot,and she knows my family real well.i also know her aunts,uncles,grandma,etc.she's soo nice to me when we are alone.but when she hangs with her older friends who are my friends to,she tells me off.when i'm with my friends she like to show off an be rude to me.i'm really sensitive,and she hurts my feelings.i'm starting to hate her.i'm having a sleepover and my mom and her mom are best friends,so i have to invite her.and all my friends will be there,so she will try to ruin my sleepover for me by showing off and talking smack!!! what should i do? i'll rate high!!! please help!!!
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Well, a lot of the time when people show off, it's because they have a low self esteem and want other people to compliment them when they show off. Have you ever just asked her to stop? That might help. Also, if she does some of that stuff, either ask to speak to her alone or if your sensitive and don't want your friends to see that, just take a quick walk or say your going to the bathroom and cool off. If all of that doesn't work, just tell her how you feel. Also warn your friends when they get there that you stepsister will probably be talking about you and not to laugh. If they don't laugh, she won't be encouraged to do more of it. Then she'll stop. I hope this works out for you, I really do. Good luck!
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