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4th of july mistake
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13f. tommorrow is 4th of july. YEAH! i'm going to watch fireworks somewhere pretty far away from my house. (like an hour drive) so i invited a friend to go with me. she and all of my other friends cant because they're going to a party i wasn't invited to. so i'm bummed... right? I have a friend Tom who lives in that town. he's had crushes on me on and off and has told lots of my friends that he thinks i'm hot. he has a huge reputation as a player. but i dont want to be his girlfriend and/or do anything sexual with him. but he wants to hang out that night, and take me wakeboarding that same morning. if i go with him is he gonna make a move? will he think i like him if i agree to go? and if you think i can go and just have a good time with him as friends ... how do i convince my parents to let me spend all day with him (they do not like him at all)?
thanx for reading this!
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Maybe you weren't invited to the party because the party giver knew you would be out of town. Still kinda rude...
You can like a guy and go out with him and still not have sex with him. If he expects you to then he is a horses hiney. He should think you like him though if you go out with him. Just doesn't give him a license to have his way with ya. If he makes a move just tell him you aren't ready for all that and want to stick to just being friends until you are older.
I don't know how you can get your parents to agree to let you go out with him if they don't like him. Maybe if you go out with a group of people they won't be so apt to say no. :)
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ok. he might try and make a move on you but so what hun. blow him off and tell him you dont like him like that. and he might think you like him and he might not. just tell your parents that you have no one else to go with and itll be fun to hang out with him :]
i hope i helped and happy 4th of july!
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If you don't want to do anything with him, then don't. If he makes a move, blow it off, or be cold. Show him that your just friends.. and will, in all likelyhood, be nothing more than that. Don't hug him, and try not to do/say anything that could be misinterperted as flirting. And just because you agree to hang out with a friend doesn't mean that you like him.
As for your parents, tell him that you and Tom are just friends, and you would never let him do anything with you. It's more about your parents trusting Tom, rather then your parents trusting you. Just try and convince them that the two of you are just friends. Or pick whichever one you want to do (wakeboarding, or watching fireworks) more, then just do that one thing with him... hope I helped.
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