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friend confusion


Question Posted Sunday July 3 2005, 9:22 pm

hey
i have had this friend since i was in 1st grade, Becca, and she has been one of my best friends ever since, same with my other friend, Katie were kinda like the 3 musketeers i guess u could say...but over the past year becca started to change...she started dressing and acting really slutty and katie agreed, her attitude also started to change and she started gettig mean somtimes, but she was still one of my bffs and i couldnt just let her go, then she did something extremly evil tht friends shouldnt do and ever since then i really dont like her tht much at all. after she did wht she did (which is very long and i dont really want to explain..) she IMed me and was saying sry and wishing to take back the last couple days and i was just like yeah im am extremly pissed and i will get over it in about a week so a week passed and i told her tht i would be friends again but could never fully forgive her, but we carried on being friends. Over the year when becca started acting bitchy, katie and i became extremly close and are best friends! but now a couple months later Becca is acting like the things in the past didnt happen and is all pissed at us because were best friends, and i dont think she should be mad about tht becaue she deserves it i guess...and i dont really like her tht much at all lately, so should i drop her as a friend? or should i just keep going and pretend everything is good and love her to death? or should i tell her we can be friends but were not best friends like me and katie? im sry this is so long and confusing, but i am very confused about it! thanks so much!
Carly


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 12:42 am:
hey what you gotta do is just talk to her and explain that its defintly not the same like it was back then. things changed. you guys got older. Things do change the older you get and she needs to understand that. Your not going down the same road as her and thats a good thing. Just do what your doing if this is what makes u happy carly-trix

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