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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME! and by the way you are very pretty!
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Wow..Well first of all thanks for the compliment.. That made me feel very good. Okay but anyways I said wow because (I know a lot of people say "i've had a boyfriend like this and blah blah" but i have and i have all the advice to give you because of it.) Okay My ex boyfriend JJ was like this a lot...and still is. We went out for 4 months and then he broke up with me saying it went to fast and he needs other girls in hes life cause he is to young, well I find out that he was doing stuff with this girl kristy (which was hes "close friend") Well I was pissed..Cause one he told me he would never she is like hes sister and they are just really close friends..well they went to a dance together and then that was the end, well i was stupid and went back to him and that was in august (not last august, the one before) well we broke up in november because it went to fast again and so I go really hurt because i started loving him and I really needed a guy at the time. I got over him around januaray and then he calls me and says all this shit like he has me as hes background and he misses me and misses talking to me and I felt like he was honest and I really felt bad..so i went back to him but he was talking to this girl ally which was hes other "close" friend so i got mad then hes cousin told me that him and her were kissing so I got mad and then he got mad so he dumped me AGAIN (cheated on me and THEN he dumped me) well that was around march or april then so then i got over him pretty quickly cause i felt like i didnt have to cry and waste my fucking time over someone that didnt want me so i met john (my boyfriend now) and we started talking around july and then we started dating in august and I have been with him for 10 months now with no break ups at all and we are as happy as can be and no one can bring us down, but jj emailed me like a week ago and made this long ass speech about how he loves me, never thought about ANY other girls (lie of course) and blah blah and then when i told him about john he flipped and then got into hes angry mood (which he had all the time...we had a very aggressive relationship that had him hitting me and stuff...ya horrible)well I didn't even think twice..It was long gone and Just move on, what you hear and see is probly correct and I would stay away, i was in the SAME EXACT situation that you are in and it ended with me crying and hurting my self over someone i thought loved me but just used me. and he still wants me and that was like a year ago. I hate him and I always will...Hate is a strong word but when it comes to him I have a right to use it and i have scars to prove it. but thats a different story..John is now my councler (spell check) so I am good now. i don't even think about him any more not even a tiny bit. So hun I would just move on and they are other good guys out there ....trust me a lot of people told me and i didnt believe them and i always said no but now look at me, i've been in a relationship for 10months and never could be happier. I hope i helped you hun...I really hope i did. Please Respond to me.
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