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my bf doesn't like pda, which is really weird, cuz i thought all guys did. and i don't know why. is it because he doesn't really like me? or he doesn't want to show that we're going out? i have no idea. and i don't know how to fix it either. cuz i know he knows i have no problem with it.(that last sentence was kind of confusing) help me megan!!!!!
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Not all guys are the same, and although many may like public displays of affection, it's perfectly normal to be a guy and not like it. It has nothing to do with how much he likes you or if he is embarrassed or not. It all just depends on his personality. He may feel that it offends others around, or that it's inappropriate/rude, or he's just shy, or it's just less personal. There are a number of reasons. It probably has nothing to do with you. That's just the way he is, and maybe after going out longer it will change, but you shouldn't pressure him to do something he isn't comfortable with. Accept the way he is, unless it REALLY bothers you, which it shouldn't anyway but it might. Then ask him WHY he is uncomfortable with it. He has his reasons, and will hopefully tell you them and even if you don't agree then still respect them. Like I said, you may get used to his "unusual" ways, or he may get used to pda, so try not to make it a big issue. Hope I helped!
~Meags
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