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"i love you" and attractions
hey babe... well you know me but and we are really good friends so you might be able to guess who this is. k, so i started going out with this new guy who i met through a bunch of my guy friends. we have a lot in common and he treats me very well! like a million times better than all my exs combined! he calls me every night and every morning, we talk on the phone for hours. sounds good right? well heres my dilemma, its only been about 2 weeks into our relationship and we've really only known each other for about 3 weeks (i know not long lol) but he already tells me how much hes in love with me and he could never leave me and he expects for me to say it back but i really want when i say "i love you" for it to mean it! not like how people throw the term around these days! i hate that! i dont know what to say to him and im getting close to saying it just to shut him up! also i feel attracted to him, or else i wouldnt be dating him, but not very strongly. i am an extremely open and sexual person but i dont feel like i want to be with him, which is really weird for me! usually im like having hookups in a weekend with 2 different guys (okay that was only once, and i was SINGLE)... i just dont know what to do about lacking the sexual attration where i just dont want to take my hands off him and i want to rape him! thats what i want and with him its just not there, but he cares a lot about me, hes a great guy, and he loves me! i just dont know what to do! thank you for your advice ahead of time!
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I think you did the right thing by not saying "I love you too," if you didnt mean it. I agree, that term is abused way to often by people who don't know one thing about love.
From what I'm reading, he seems more into you, then you are into him. This situation is clearly normal unfortantly, I don't think I can recall a couple who loved eachother equaly.
Sometimes you meet a guy who is the complete package, and you find yourself not needing to reach out and indulge in your wantings. ( sexualy).
If you think you are lacking the sexual tention in the relationship, theres only two things you can do: 1) Make the first move yourself, nothing wrong with that. 2) leave him for someone who is willing to satify you. ( wow i sound like a sex theripest! lol.) You said yourself that hes a great guys, and treats you well, I wouldn't leave him, But I would let him know that your not quiet ready to say " I love you" back. If hes a great guy like you said, I think he would understand.
I hope that I made any sense at all!
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