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this is serious..
hey, alright im new to this and my friend recommended this so im gonna give it a try.. this may take a lil while to explain.. ever since the summer before 8th grade .. 2 years ago.. i've liked this kid .. we went out for 3 months ..and i got cheated on twice.. he meant so much to me and i couldnt even tell you, he became my life, we ended up breaking up because things just didnt seem to work out, i tried to go out with other guys, so get over him but it never seemed to work, i ended up going out with this one guy ..but he was into drugs and such..what i wasnt in to.. so after that we told each other we'd get back together, and we finally did .. on february 16th, it became the best day of my life, and i couldnt tell you how much he meant to me, the feelings i had for him became so strong, that the word love seem to come to mind quite often, we went out, and he ended up cheating on me again, the worse thing he could ever do, and to this day it hurts to talk about this, we ended up breaking on June 4th ..up at the end of the school year because i was going to high school, and the feelings he had for me just werent as strong.. so the summer came and our feelings for each other were back .. we had a hook up here anf there ..every so often.. at this time, my feelings had never changed from day one about him.. school year came around and we didnt end up talking as much as we liked but we tried.. he went his way with girls and i went my way with guys.. soon i found a guy who treated me so good.. and i thought maybe i could get over him with this guy.. so he treated me so good..not even a month into the relationship ..he cheated on me.. so i dumped him..and when i decided i would dump him i knew my feelings were as stong as i thought.. so i knew my feelings for the other boy .. never left me.. i've tried so many things to get over him.. but during the school year .. he met a girl.. and she played him from the start.. she ended up starting to like him..and he liked her .. so they went out..and me and him still talked.. she HATED me more than anything .. i told her i couldnt help my feelings i've had for him.. but she didnt get it.. he ended up telling me he wanted me back and that everything would be okay because we'd have everything back again.. so he dumped her..and i had the best days of my life with him..it seemed so perfect.. so one day came along..where he had told me he missed his ex-girlfriend.. and that the more time he spent with me made him want her more.. this totally crushed me.. and now its to now.. hes back with her..and i couldnt be more heart broken.. the summer was mine and his time.. to be together, no matter what girl came along, he never let her get in the way of the summer..but now he has.. he told me this girl was the one.. he really loved her.. and this puts me to tears to even say this..but i miss him alot.. and i love him alot..and i told him as long as hes happy.. im happy...but its not true.. it will never be true..i'll never be as happy as i was when i was with him and i cant do anything about.. i need you to please help me.. i cant figure out my life.. and this situation has ruined it.. i've tried to hard to help myself..but right now im about to enter depression.. this is really serious.. please help me and tell me what you think on this situation =(
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Well I would say that if he cheated on you ; that isn't real love. You can't seriously love someone and then do that to them...but what he did was just wrong. Cheating on you numerous times ; breaking your heart like that ; telling you another girl was the one.. that's the rudest thing I've ever heard of! So in a way it's kind of good that you guys aren't dating anymore because I mean, what if he cheated on you AGAIN? =/ So in a way, it is kind of for the best.. because who knows? This girl could be "the one" and he could be off finding another girl who's the next "one" and she doesn't even know it. =/ But I know that you love him alot and that you miss him, but I'm sure over time, you'll slowly but surely start to get over him....you may not think you will never again in your life... but you will..and even if you think you're sooo depressed, maybe you could go to one of those talk groups and talk with people who have shared the same thing you have.. I did that once whenever my friend died, and it helped sooo much..=/... hope everything works out for you, and I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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