i was dating this guy named andrew for about 1 1/2 months. well i got grounded half way through the relationship and couldnt see him even though i was used to seein him EVERY day in school and stuff. well when i got grounded he would hang out with his friends and sometimes they were girls so wed fight ALOT even though he never did ne thing. i became a huge bitch and bitched at him for anything and it made me feel sooooo bad. then he broke up with me over spring break for a gurl. we just started talkin again though. i dont call him or any thing.. we just hang with alot of the same people and when we see eachother we talk. well he broke up with me because i was a bitch and i never did ne thing but make out. i wanted to do more but it was always wrong place or wrong time. i hated it. i think i still like him though and i really want him back. aq gurl thats almost like a sister to him told me he'd come back cause hes just a clingy type of person. i want him to come back NOW though. i dont know how to tell him that i want him back or how to get him back... should i just wait for him or say sumthin? and if that then what do i say? i know if i want him back then i cant be a big bitch and i have to move faster which im willing to do cause i really liked him alot and maybe these feelings will move to loving him. please help me ASAP. thanxs
smiLinLiar7x answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 6:10 pm: alright the SAME thing happened with me! and i'm real close to gettin back with him and this is how i did it..alright so now you've probably changed from all of that b*tchyness stage lol its normal for a girl to feel like their boyfriend is cheating on them when they are with other girls..so its alright i would say you aren't so much being a b*tch your just bein a little overprotective but in a relationship you gotta have trust..so you have to learn to trust your boyfriend with everything you got so that's first off..and then whenever you talk to him just ask him every once in a while be like "so who do you like now days" or something to egg him on to that..and when he asks you back you HAVE to tell him that you still have feelings for him because otherwise you aren't going to have another chance with him..and you have no other way of telling him..and i mean just to tell him that you like him will make him feel better and maybe you don't even know it but i bet he probably feels the same way about you!:) but..you just gotta keep reminding him that you still love him and stuff and you gotta do it SOON because if you don't..you'll lose eachother and then you'll realize that you'll regret not telling him and regret not being able to maybe have another chance..so GOOD LUCK sweetie i bet it will all work out..this is what happened with me and all this helped..so i HOPE it all works out hun! tell me if it does okay! good luck! if you need anything else drop one in my inbox! <3alex [ smiLinLiar7x's advice column | Ask smiLinLiar7x A Question ]
Ghelp answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 5:22 pm: First of all i HOPE that you have changed from how you were when you were with him. Guys can't stand B**ches. And if you want to get back with him than i think that you should wait and see what he is thinking or how he is acting. Don't go after him. Because i dated a girl that was like you described and told her i didn't like that and we were opposites...she sends messages all the time saying we should hang out and that she loves me and im the best guy. So what im trying to say is if you start doing that to him...he will get turned off. Show him that you care...but don't be blatant...and don't try to push it in his face. Make sure he seems to go along with it. Another thing is be a "best friend" to him. Relationships are great when they start with friendship and also you will be more comfortable with him. Let him know you have changed and try to talk to him about anything and comfort him. Be supportive and just be there for him whenever and where ever. That should do it because his level of respect for you will sky rocket. This is how i feel towards the situation and how i would be intrigued by you if we had this history. I think that will work for you. My sn on aim is garrettg2006 if you need more info or just want to talk about it or whatever you want to talk about. Im glad i could help...if i did at all lol. Here is my link: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) [ Ghelp's advice column | Ask Ghelp A Question ]
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