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broken heart
well, my boyfriend broke up with me and i still really loved him, and i never really know why he broke up with me. any ways, i cant seem to let him go, and my friends are like get over him already, but i jsut cant!!! i really do like him, hes the one who made me feel like i was the prettiest person in the world when i was talkin to him. what do i do?!?!?!
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broken hearted 13 female
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Well, I know what a loss like that can feel like. The only thing that you can do is just live your life. There's really no such thing as "getting over" someone that you LOVE. I don't mean to sound rude, but at our age, it is most likely NOT love, and just someone that you like A LOT. Around 13 and 14 is when we are learning more about ourselves as people, we're gaining more friends, and we tend to get up in a lot of gossip. We get so caught up in everyone "hooking up" and "going out" that we don't take time to appreciate him/her. When people are telling you that you need to get over them, its probably a sign that they aren't worth being miserable over. When someone makes you feel like your the prettiest person in the world, it feels good for a while, but then eventually you need to realize that you shouldn't NEED someone to MAKE you feel that way, that you should be happy with who you are in the first place. After losing someone close to me, I wallowed in misery, as i'm sure that you have done (everyone does it, dont be ashamed) but then I realized that i was better off without him, that i didn't need him so that I could be happy.
I am just trying to say...be happy with yourself. No one needs someone to help them be happy. You may think that you do, and believe that you do. But in the end, if you lose them, what is your support? How will you ever be able to live? You have to be an independent person, you need to learn how to be strong on your own. You can't sit and wallow in misery because he doesn't like you anymore. You have to move on, as hard as it is.
I apologize if any of this came off rude...please believe me when i say that it wasn't supposed to.
If you have any more questions, just ask me, i'd be happy to help. Let me know how this goes.
Love, Arielle
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