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Could be pregnant, or not
16/f. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. We've been very sexual lately...and didn't use a condom several times. He SAID nothing went in me/he didn't go off in me, and I didn't feel anything like that did...but I'm still worried about my chances of being pregnant. I have a lot going on in my life that'll set my future. I can't afford to be pregnant and IF I am, abortion is an option of course...You can get an abortion without your parents knowing right? And how much is the cost? Ahh I'm just very scared, maybe too too too paranoid? Please..help.
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Please do not read on if you can't handle reading my opinion. If you can't handle reading my opinion, skip to where there is a line. Below that line are the answers to your questions.
First of all, I am not sexually active, and don't plan to be until after marriage. So you might be able to infer I have mixed feelings about abortion.
You say you didn't feel anything. Well, that sure isn't too reassuring is it? You probably know about pre-cum and you can get pregnant from it.
Abortion IS an option, but is it morally right? To kill a baby and never give it a chance just because you wanted to be sexually active? Just because YOU have things you want to do in life, you are willing to KILL a PERSON so you can finish YOUR OWN goals? I'm not so sure about that. You're going to live your entire life, knowing you never gave your baby a chance.
Of course, this is all opinion. You do what you want, because it IS your life, and you don't have to listen to anything I say.
And no, you're not being paranoid. There IS a chance you may be pregnant, and ANY chance is something to be scared about.
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Because you asked me questions, I will answer them. Do I agree with what you're doing? No. But I'll answer your questions. I should mention this: I have NO idea about the details of abortion. So I did some research for you. Check out these links.
Since the link is too long to post, I'll give you the link and show you were to click.
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Click on "Health Info" and then "Abortion".
Here is another site with information:
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Here is another link:
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Click Enter. Then click "In Focus". Then click "Abortion".
All of these sites have all the answers you need.
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