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my boyfriend
ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. and the other day he questionedme about my arm.(i used to cut myself about 5 months ago) and then after i told him about it he told me that about 6 months ago his firend which i hate to death(i hope she chokes and dies) took advantage of him when he was drunk.she really likes him and she cant seem to understand that he is mine. i would kick her ass but me and my boyfriend are in a long distance realtionship so bascaially i cant do that. my boyfriend has yelled at her about and all but she still doesnt understand. i dont know if i should be mad at him or her? i know he didnt mean what he did becuse even with the distace he sends me flowers, and candy. he has even sent jewler to me. can some one please help me! i am confussed and i love this guy and i cant leave him.
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She may have put the moves on him but I doubt she took advantage of him. Long distance relationships are hard to do. It may well happen again. You will have to decide if you want to put up with the occasional "mistake" or move on. I notice he still calls her his friend even though she supposedly is the guilty one here. Like I said though, those kind of things happen in long distance relationships. Sorry. Hopefully it will work out for you. :)
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It isnt your boyfriends fault, i would say speak to her about it, then tell her about it, then inforce it again then shout it into her deaf ears. Then flaunt the fact you and your boyfriend are togehter, it will make her feel like shit and it might get teh message through.
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I can see why you wanna kick this other chick's ass. She sounds like a bitch to me. Just don't confront her because you could also make an enemy. Everyone has an enemy, I know, but if it's your boyfriend's friend, you'll have your man in the middle of it all, he'll feel pressured to choose between the two of you, and that's not good, so try try TRY not to get be mean to her if you can help it. He might think you're being a jealous jerk so do it for him, not for your own sake unless she does sumthing bad to you. then you can bite back. Even with her on his back, it sounds like he likes you, not her because he seems to think of you even though you are in a distant relationship.
You don't need to leave him. Just ignore that girl.
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