ok well i dated this guy B for like 8 days then we broke up because i kissed his cousin S. but i really liked S n so then S & me started talkin n then we started datin on December 1st n then S told me that he loved me like the day befor my birthday which is Dec. 18th... well S n me went to diff schools n i really did love him but he got sent off like Jan 7th or 8th... well he told him mom to tell me that he still loved me n all n then we wood talk like once every month if that. then he called one day n sed he was comin home n he was gonna go to my school n asked if i wanted to get bak 2 gether w/ him n i sed yea... he got bak when school got out in may... well befor he got bak every w/e he wood come home n stay w/ friends.. now he is bak n hasnt sed nothin else 2 me bout gettin bak2 gether.. i really do b leve that heloves me i jus dont kno if he wants to b w/ me like that... because he let this grl that i got in a fight w/ give him head.. i guess he didnt think i wood find out or whatevr.. he is a 16yrold blk guy.im a 15yrold wite grl..i love him n i was in love w/ him but i jus dont kno if i am still... i feel incompleet w/out him...it hurts me 2 heer bout him n othr grls n crap like that... now i barly see him or talk 2 him... but gosh he is sooooooo georgous... he looks like lil bow wow.. i swear 2 god... but he's out tryin 2 hustle n stuff n i do that 2 but i dont put that above everything....... so like what do i do with this whole thing??? i need help like REALLY bad... please hlp me...
Krupple answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 1:51 am: I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth.
People like this don't stop. Even if you get in a relationship with him again, he will get bored and leave. He's already done things behind your back, so he obviously doesn't care very much about your feelings. This kind of thing usually doesn't change.
There will be other guys who will treat you better. If you go continue to go after guys who make you feel bad, you will be chasing happyness (and falling short) for the rest of your life.
I'm sorry this happened, but trust me, it will get better. Trust me on this one
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