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my bf and i have been going out for almost 2 yrs and i luv him to death. i cant wait to be w/ him n im never going to dump him so dont suggest that. but lately hes been sayin he'll hang out w/ me but then he ditches me for his otha friends n they're mad far away so i never get to talk to him at all. i hate it when he does it but he makes it seem like its no biggie. he doesnt know how i feel n when i talk to him he never understands. plus he does drugs when hes there, or atleast he did. n he wonders y i hate him goin there. i dunno what to do. i want to stop gettin all upset when he does this but i cant n i dunno what to do if theres anythin i can do. wheneva he says hes goin there i get all quiet n je just started noticin that i get upset. n he gets mad at me cuz of it. i dunno what to say so he gets how i feel and how i dont like him goin there but i want him to be happy at the same time so i neva say nothin. please help. i really need it. thanks.
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Of course you get upset! Every time he hangs out with those friends who use drugs he is jeapordizing your future with him. He could get thrown in jail if caught. He could get in an accident if he uses. He is making you take a back seat to all those things. That isn't good. I know you want to save your relationship but, unless you are willing to sit and wait while he goes and hangs out with those who could help get him in trouble I don't know what to say. You need to make him see that you should be more important than that to him. If he is using drugs he may not be able to see that. I wish you luck with it and hope that if you can't make him see, you are strong enough to look for one more deserving of your love. :)
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I would never suggest for you to break up with somebody that youve been with for 2 years. I think that maybe you should tell him that it hurts your feelings when he blows you off to hang out with his friends. Tell him that you would also like to get to know his friends and maybe sometimes but not all the time go with him to hang out with his friends. tell him its not because you dont trust him its just you dont want to not spend time with him all the time and that it wouldnt bug you to hang out with him and his friends. If it bugs you that hes doing drugs when hes up there tell him. Tell him you dont want him to become this big druggie person. Speaking your mind is ALWAYS the best thing to do.
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