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Hey! You know how I wrote about my friend having a baby? Well..... her mom wants to give her an abortion..... and my friend could die from this.... and my best friend from kindergarten doesn't want his girlfriend to have a baby, and while she has been pregnat.... I have been having sex with her boyfriend.... and i now know that if she has this baby it could die because of me... what do I do? Should I tell her?
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hey! wow umm...thats a toughie. first of all, what you did was wrong..having sex w/ your friend's boyfriend that is. but i think you should definitely tell her, just for the sake of things...and the whole abortion/her having a baby is really tough. b/c like you said, her boyfriend doesn't want her to have a baby, and her mom wants her to get an abortion, but she could die. i say talk to a doctor and her mom about all this, and all your opinions and whatnot, and try to figure something out. but as for having sex w/ her boyfriend, i think you should definitely talk to her about it...but the baby isn't necessarily going to "die b/c of you" b/c you can't help that..so if you do feel up to telling her, go for it. i don't really think it's a good idea to keep that from her...i hope i helped, good luck!
love always,
*rach ]
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