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theres this guy im tryin to block outta my life (my x boy friend)
but i jus cant each time i talk to him my heart sinks cuz i think im still in love but i dont wanna admit it cuz i wanna keep thinkin im a strong person. how can i find away 2 get over this. i dont know what to do......when we broke up it was mutual we both wanted it but now hes sayin he broke up with me. after we broke up he i asked him if we could be together again an he said no. ive been heart broken for a while but i wanna get over it (it happened in march/april)
look how far ago that was. i want to be his friend but he keeps sayin i need to change ans that pisses me off. when we were dating he like other grls. an that also pissed me off so when we broke up he didnt even coupe er nothin he already was all over someone else. i dont know what to do how do i make this pain stop how can i aviod him. he lives down the block, sure i havent seen him in 3 weeks but sumtimes he aims me an i wanna block it but i jus dont have the heart to because we r still "friends"
but you think you can help me?
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Getting over someone is always really hard. The best way to get over someone is to find someone (or something) to take their place. I know that seems almost impossible to think about but its the only thing that will get your mind off him.
It could be that your can be friends someday. I think some time is going to have to pass first though. Its all to fresh right now and you aren't getting over him to fast. I think the fact that he has moved on so quickly should tell you that your feelings were much deeper than his.
I really wish I knew how guys do that because it always seems to be so easy for them to move on. I think girls have take everything more to heart than they do.
Maybe next time he aims you, you could tell him that you really want to be friends but you are still trying to deal with it all. Maybe he needs to give you another couple of months before he tries to talk to you again. I know it is hard and I wish I had some better wisdom to give you on this. It just takes time but you will get over it. Go find yourself the best looking hunk around and go after him. You will feel better soon. I am half kidding but you really should. :)
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