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Confused.


Question Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 3:42 pm

first i just want to say that you give awesome advice :).

okay well theres this kid that ive liked for around 3 years, we were together for about a week, the i just freaked out. it seems like whenever i get close to a guy & he starts to like me back i suddenly become scared. i have no idea why this happens. but like i said, i still like this kid. im kind of afraid that if he ever does like me again then im just going to draw back again. i doubt he will ever like me again, but just in case, id like a little advice on "facing my fear". thanks so much!


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missmanda answered Saturday June 18 2005, 4:48 pm:
aww thanks doll, ur sweet (=

i have the same problem.
well.. i think you should just relax & enjoy life with him. its the summer right? have fun, act wild, be freeee.. cause you are =P.

facing fears is one of lifes many.. "duhs," i guess you could say (yeah i know im corny). DUH you have to face your fears. you have to go for it if you like someone & they like you back. you may never get another chance with him. if you go out with a guy, dont let that be everything on your mind. keep busy & think about other things. thinking about it can only make it worse sometimes. taking risks & facing your fears will only make you stronger & help you in the long run.

all i can pretty much think of is to relax. it's helped me a lot in situations like this & similar to it. go with the flow chick! for example, if a guy is gonna make a move by holding your hand or something, just calm down and be yourself.

thats the best i cant do hun (=
goshh i hope everything works out for you. PLEASE tell me how everything goes darlin!

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