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to love or not to love
hey i am a 15 year old girl from missouri. ok well i met this guy through a friend of mine. we went out for like a month and a half. he tried to get in my pants twice after we had talked about it and decieded that it was beyond both of our boundaries (even though he had done it twice before). well i broke up with him for it. now over a month later he is talking about going back out with me. i am still so mad at him for trying that (by the way it was on our way from MO to MS... in the car with my parents!!) that i dont know if i can trust him again! my best friend hates him because he didnt respect me and she doesnt support me going out with him again but i still do miss him and the way i felt around him. he used to put my hair behind my ears before he kissed me and he used to tell me im beautiful and he would kiss me on my forehead before we made out (usually). but some of my friends just say that was because he wanted stuff from me bc he is known for being a player and getting what he wants from girls. he claims im different and hes changed. i dont know what to do. should i give him another chance and risk putting myself in that position or just move on to someone better?
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that's really romantic of him to put your hair behind your ears before kissing you but... I have to say... DROP HIM! He might do some romantic stuff but if he loves you, he won't try anything you're not ready for. It's one thing for him to try it ONCE and figure out that you're not ready but when he tries it again, it's like... DUH! No boyfriend should do that. I'm saying this to keep you out of danger... who knows what he could do in the future... for all you know, he could be a serial rapist or something. (Chances are... he's not but you would rather be safe than sorry)Do not worry about hurting his feelings because you're doing this for a reason... because you know what's right and if you get back together with him, that's wrong and not the right thing to do after this happening. I REALLY hope for you to make the right choice but remember that I'm just giving you ADVICE! I don't want you to feel like you HAVE to do what I'm telling you. It's your decision but if I were in your shoes, that's what I would do. If you need anything else, please email me at heather_luvs_u123@yahoo.com OR kitty_kats123@yahoo.com. Remember: I'm always here for you if you want to talk or if you need more advice. Ask me.
Best of luck!
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~~~Brittany~~~
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