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hey. ok. i think i might be bi. but i only feel this way for ONE girl. so it could be obsession or something. and we only talk during softball. and she is graduating this year coming up. i no this is gonna sound bad, but i got on my brothers s/n just to talk to her last night..i pretended to be a guy and i found out she was gay. and i also asked her a bunch of personal questions (if you no what i mean) and found out a BUNCH of stuff about her. and everytime she answered back i got butterflies in my tummy and this HUGE smile came across my face and i got VERY nervous every time. i dont no i have never felt this way for anyone. could this be a crush, love, or just obsession?
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i cant tell you wether you're in love or not. i think that you might want to consider asking her out and see what happens. by the way you describe your feelings i think it may be a little more than a simple crush, or at least it could be more. i think that pretending to be your brother may have been invading her privacy a little, but i know that you wanted to know all you could about her. if you do end up asking her out don't mention it until you think the time is right. i think you probably are bisexual because you clearly have very strong feelings for this girl. if you dont feel ready to ask her out then i would tell you to try to get closer to her, as yourself. build a foundation. i hope you figure it all out. if you have any other questions just drop it in my inbox. good luck.
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Well im not bi or lesbian, and I have never felt that way about another girl, but i have had those same exact feelings for a guy. I think it could probley be that you have a crush on her. If you had an obbsession i don't think that you would have butterflies every time she answered back. And when you got happy when you found out she was gay is another reason why you could have a crush on her. Maybe you were attracted to her b/c she was gay.
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Well, you could very well be bi. If you feel like you'd want to do something with her, and like it, yeah you might be more than bi. It might be an obsession, but it sounds like you like her more than just a friend. When I hear my boyfriend talk, or him IM me, I get butterflies i my stomach. You get them when you talk with her? This could be a major clue to your sexual preferance. Do you still feel the same way about guys as you do her? If not, then you could be just lesbian. Nothing is wrong with this, just be yourself and if you like her like that, try and tell her because you know that she is bi also.
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