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Is there something wrong with me if right now, i have a girlfriend, but also find the need to be with a guy also? if you get my drift...i keep my relationship a secret to my gf ofcourse, is this ok Kerry?
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Well, I would have to say, in my opinion it isn't. If you really care about this girl, then you wouldn't be cheating on her; if you really care about this guy, you wouldn't be cheating on him. I mean, I wouldn't say that there is something wrong with YOU, maybe the actions you take though. I think that you should take some time away from both of them (not break up though) and just think, think about your relationship with both of them. I think that you should chose wich is more important, him, or her. Who would be better for YOU? Who would be there to hold you when you cry, to comfort you when you're hurt? Who do you care about more? It's not my place to say who you should date, or what you should do. Just help guide you through with your choice. Also, if you really, really want to keep both relationships alive, tell your gf about your bf. Honesty is the key in a relationship. If you don't tell her, you will just be hurting her, and lying to her. Would you want that? Do what you think is best for you, not either of them.
Love Always,
Kerry ]
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