Okay i am a 17 year old and i am dating this guy and i have been dating for a month and it is starting to really bug me because he always has to be touching me and when i tell him to stop he gets pissed at me! i am afraid that if it doesnt stop i am gonna break up with him and i really dont want to but he needs to understand what i am sayin how do i make him realise that it really bugs me and that things between us need to be taken slower??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? whatnext answered Thursday June 16 2005, 2:10 pm: i dont this to come out the wrong way... but are you dating a guy who is known to "get around"? or do you have a rep of "getting around"? at the age of 17, most ppl think that they need to be all over eachother to show the other person that they care. now there is a difference btwn gettin too touchy, and just simply touching. if he is getting to touchy, just tell him to stop, and well since you already do that, and he gets mad, try explaining why you dont want him to be all... over you. speaking of this, why is it such a problem? i no where you are coming from, it gets pretty annoying when your bf is all over you 24/7. im just trying to figure out more info... is there something else behind all this? have you been hurt in the past a lot? or are you having second thoughts?? when my bf was all over me, i always thought he wanted sex, but i sat down with him and explained why i didnt like him to be all over me, and that was because i was hurt in the past, and he thought that was what "normal" couples did our age... but i asked if we could take things slow, because of the past... so keep me updated, and if there is anything else behind this, or anything else you need help with, you no where to find it. [ whatnext's advice column | Ask whatnext A Question ]
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