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A question about my love life
well, well, well...how can i put this is simple terms...okay, my love life sucks ass!...lol..i just turned 16(female) and i have never had a real honest to God boyfriend, which means, i have never had sex..this is very frustrating because all my other friends that i can think of have had numerous boyfriends and have sex regularly..i think they think i have had some but i havent..its like im not attractive and no one wants me..or if i do catch someone's eye, i'm just too shy to approach them..that's probably my biggest problem, being too shy and approaching people and the fact that i'm ready for a boyfriend but i'm always looked at as "just a friend", which is the worst..so, my question is, what can i do to get a boyfriend and get "some"?..
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Well considering you've just turned 16, I wouldn't worry too much on not "getting any" ya know. Some girls actually don't have sex 'til they're 17 or 18. The boyfriend situation might be different though. If you have alot of guy friends or are interested in someone already, then focus on being a little more flirty with them so they are exposed to having a more than "just friends" relationship. Instead of talking to guys like you're their best friend, try bringing up "you and me" kind of thing. That way it'll get them more focused on you and you only ;] And if you have no one in mind yet, just go out with some girl friends or whatever and meet new people. Be more open and confident (it's sexy! haha.) Guys will love it when you hit on them first, but don't rush into anything. You don't want to scare them off. Just act very casual with everything but really flirty too. And if you do get a little close to guy then be somewhat intimate and open with him. Well I hope that gives you a start :]
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