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sorry this is long but i need help. please. asap
there is a girl in school I like but I can't stop thinking about her. we were geting along great but I asked her out and now she won't talk to me. my friend said she liked me for a month but I asked her out again and she stoped. i am obssed with her.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
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So... uh, what's your question? You gave a great setting, but you didn't ask a question. I'll try and help, though.
Okay, it sounds like the girl is one of these:
- Crazy
- Scared (of a relationship)
- Lost her feelings for you
- Has a boyfriend
- Isn't allowed to date/go out
That's kinda sweet that you're "obsessed" with her; but have you considered the option of ... well, maybe she's not the one for you? I mean, maybe she is, and if she is, you'll get together with her in the end, but if she's not... why waste your time and get your heart broken? Just be careful.
Why don't you talk to her? Girls like it when guys talk to them. Being a girl, I would know this to be true. She might be afraid to start the conversation with you, so you'll have to do that. Talking to her shows that you <i> really do like her enough to pursue a friendship with her! </i> Don't ask her out yet though, that'll turn her off and scare her away. Just be her friend for a while. Treat her the same as you treat other female friends. Don't focus too much attention on her alone, that'll make her feel like you're singling her out and trying to get closer to her. Get a group of guys and girls to go to a movie (making sure she's coming, too!) or hanging out at a bowling alley or something.
She might be afraid of the commitment in a relationship. Or she might not be allowed. Or maybe her best friend likes you and it would be breaking an unspoken rule to go out with you. Believe me, there are alot of those unspoken rules with girls. It is a <b> very </b> important rule not to go out with the boy your best friend (or any friend!) likes. That's always a reason, her parents or religion might not permit her to date, or she might like another boy. There might even be someone threatening her. Who knows? She has her reasons, let them be for now.
Hang out with her and a group (don't single her out). Just be her friend. She might tell you what's going on, or the spark may be rekindled. But I'll tell you one thing for sure: Wait until she seems to like you before you ask her back out. Any sooner than that will only hurt you.
-FunnyCide
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