ok well you said i should just ask him out because im not getting anywhere/ well what if he just broke up with his girlfriend and still might like her because the only reason why they brokeup is cuz she was not by him enought like not compassionate enough..so he might still like her and i dont wana ruin our friendship...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Domesticity category? Maybe give some free advice about: Cooking? Courtney answered Thursday June 23 2005, 9:22 pm: Well, I think that you should try and follow your heart . But you should also consider his too. It may be just too soon to ask him out if he's yearning for the girl that is his x. But if he shows no visual sign of that at all, or anything that is a sign relevent to the girlfriend, then I think you should ask him out and show him how compassionate you can be towards him. You'd get an opportunity to show him that you'll be there for him. But if you don't like it that he's still yearning for her, then you might want to hold off on that a bit longer. Hope I was some help and have a nice day. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
Courtney answered Friday June 10 2005, 7:33 pm: That is so true too. But what you have to define is what you want from this guy. If you're comfortable with the fact that he likes this other girl while he's still with you, and I'm pretty sure you don't, then you'll have to live with it if you're comfortable with that. It could be the fact that it's too soon. But it's all up to you to decide that fact. You have to decide what you want from him. You also have to think whether he will fulfill those desires appropriately. And , hun, your comfortability is everything. So, be cool . If you decide to go through it all, then you should be there for him absolutely a 100% because that'll define the difference between the exgirlfriend and you. And it'll show how truly compassionate you are. So keep on . You'll do okay. If you don't want to ruin your friendship, it might just take time. And this is because he might need time. And if you want to be truly compassionate, you'll be understanding and respecting towards that. And while you're doing that for him, be there for him too. Show him how amazing you are at all times. The opportunity to be with him will unravel itself. You just have to be patient and you'll know. Definitely. Hope I was some sort of help and have a lovely day. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
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