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can't commit
female 36
I have been sleeping with a guy that is younger than me (28) for over a year now. We always seem to get together, well he always comes back for more. I have said to him that I feel bad about this and that I had told him in the beginning that I wanted a relationship. He has told me that he doesn't want a commitment because he is scared, just recently he told me that the girlfriend he had, had committed suicide, I have yet to find out more about this. I am finding it hard to not sleep with him because we are good together and I really like him. Before he leaves he always says I will ring you or catch up soon but I am the one who usually has to txt first. I wonder if he's just not that keen on me or if he really is scared to start something new because of what happened, I am not that confident to pry into what happened, but do I have a right to know? I really like this guy, but am I just wasting my time, should I just be strong and call it quits.
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try something just to see...dont contact him..wait it out and see if he will contact you first..he might just assume you will call....a guy who really likes you...will call..it sounds lik e maybe he kind of knows you will call him first?
well i think you desserve a committed relationship..oif thats what your looking for. tell him you want a committment...and if you cant seem to agree, maybe its best to go seperate ways.
i know guys have fantasies about being with older women...so mayne this is just his fantasy hes living..an he wants to just sleep with you with no committment...tell him either there is a commitment...or you will have to go seperate ways/
as for the dead gf..i would leave that alone...dont play investigator...if he decides to be committed and you get closer emotionally..then he will naturally open up to you
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