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Crazy or Caring?
Hey
I'm a kid who just learned about the joys of a social life. Anyway, there is this one boy who i used to get along with just great. We'd always fight a lot, and have different views on everything, but i think thats what attracted me to him (as a friend!!!!). Anywho, all of a sudden he acted really strange. He said stuff like he was ashamed to be around me and that he didn't want to be friends anymore. It really hurt my feelings because i enjoyed his company a lot. Naturally, i asked my gal pals what was up with him, but they had taken his side and left me out in the cold when it came to info on the subject. I believe in loyalty, but i was clueless to what i did or if i did anything at all. I felt really safe around this guy and i can't seem to get him out of my head. I try really hard to hate him and more on, but i can't. I really want to know what happened but i can't approach him cause he ignores me and my friends keep saying that they are sworn to secretcy. I want my friend back! Am i insane or do i just really care a lot about what i've invested in this friendship?
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TO: Crazy or Caring?
first off i'd like to apologize for taking forever to reply to this and hope my advice won't be too late. now to my reply:
you are NOT insane for caring greatly about this friendship...it's completely understandable that you would miss a friend, especially if the two of you were extremely close as it seems. i know a story exactly like your that happened to my two friends (let's say their names are craig and carolee). carolee did something that craig didn't like subconsciously and so although she didn't know what she did wrong, craig was still mad at her. i'm not saying you did anything wrong but maybe something you did subconsciously had upset him. the hard part is finding out what it is. if he won't tell you and your friends aren't talking to you maybe you can ask a close friend of his, or at least someone who is willing to give you a hint. also think about this: if he is a true friend then i'm sure he'll come around. ya noe?
again apologies for this being late and hopefully it's worth-it advice.
ps- good luck and keep your chin up!! things get worse before they get better...
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