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hey theres this boy at my school named troy and he likes me but i hate him because he always makes fun of me and i told the principal because it got really bad and he admitted it to the principal how can i tell him i dont like him with out hurting his feelings ???????? and im 14 female
P.S I really need your help on this one
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Hey hun! I've been through this before so you definitely found the perfect girl to help you out! Well, love is a complicated emotion at this age. As you know, guys can be really sensitive to rejection. I wish I could tell you a way to say "no" without him getting hurt but unfortunately there is no proven way. I can however help you out in making it less painful for him, perhaps lightening it up a bit so he doesn't get too upset. Let him know that you just don't know him well enough to get into a relationship. Plus, tell him that your feelings get hurt when he is making fun of you. Let him know that you'll get to know him as friends though. This will give him hope & maybe soften the blow. It may seem like the last thing you want to do is "get to know him" but why don't I share my story, it just may change your mind.
Ever since last year I'd hated this guy. He was annoying, had a bad mouth, was rude to my friends & I & overall I just hated him. Sometimes though, we would talk & we started to get close. He had feelings for me & I could tell. He was starting to treat me differently when we became friends. Now we're best friends & maybe one day more. I'm not telling you to say yes but maybe become friends. That way, he won't be so hurt. & once you're friends, you can always talk some sense into him about the way he treats girls ;]. Good luck hun! ♥ If you ever need help, I'm here.
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