i am 13 years old and this summer, i want to find love. like i seriously need it, i have been waiting for my first kiss forever and i dream about it all the time and this summer i NEED to get kissed or else i will feel like such a failure. but i'm worried, what if i don't meet anyone i like? what if i can't get any crush to like me back? can you please give me some tips please? i desperately need it. thank you!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Michele answered Sunday June 5 2005, 12:16 am: WEll if you let everyone know that you need to get kissed this summer, you'll be successful. Someone will be happy to kiss you. BUt what if that someone is not someone that you want to kiss. YOu know we older girls have a saying......you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince...... But there is ot one of us who would not go back and unkiss everyone of them, if we could just get right to the time in our life where we did meet the most wonderful guy. For some of us, it takes many many years. But don't be discouraged. For many of us, it does not. I think you will get your wish this summer. You may just fall in love. I just want you to know that it happens, when it happens. When we force it, we end up dissapointed. There are PLENTY of assh*les out there who would be very happy to kiss you and be your boyfriend this summer. But that is not what you want. You want someone who is going to be kind and gentle and respectful to you and cherish you. Teenage boys don't even know how to do that. They are so far away from that behavior. They don't start feeling that way until they are intheir 20's. That is why I say it takes time.
The best thing you can do to attact a boy that you think you like and want to get to know better is to
1. be happy
2. be confiden
3. ask them about themselves
4. be a good listener
5. compliment them. boost their egos, they love it.
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