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I am 16 i went out with this boy from school we used to be like bestfriend he used to tell me he had no feelings then i realised he had no feelings for me because he liked another girl.we went out for a year and during that time his bestfriend was always trying to break us up finally he managed to break us up.He used to always try and kiss me at the same time as i was with my bf he tryed everything to break us up and finally with his lies he broke us up and me and my x bf remained friends but the friendship is not as gd as it was before.I grew to like this boy because i new he cared for me anyway.Now it turns out he has a gf and everyone says i should try and break them up.But i am not like that i don't know what to do.He told me he wanted to go out with me before he went out with this girl but i turned him down.so what i am asking is what to do now?
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I think that if he really, truly, cared about you like he said he does, then he wouldn't be dating the other girl. I think that you should move on, i know that it's hard. But you definatly don't want to break them up, remember how bad it felt when the guy broke you and your boyfriend up. I think that if he could go out with that other girl, when he apparently liked you, you don't need him anyways. I hope that I helped. Good luck, and if you have anymore questions please feel free to ask. Don't hesitate...and please rate if you have time
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Just tell him, that if he was any kind of a man, he'd talk to his girlfriend. If he wants to ask out another girl, it's not fair to hang on to her. Also, he wouldn't be worth your hooking up with. If he is willing to go behind her back to see you he'd do the same to you. It is better to have a man you know wouldn't lie to you just to make things easier on himself. If he has the guts and honor to tell his current girlfriend he's interested in dating other people, then there is hope for him. It is the ones who won't say anything hoping to avoid tears and scenes and keep a poor girl hanging after them that are true scum. A minor heartbreak can be gotten over, the betrayal and disrespect of cheating and lies causes much more lasting damage.
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TEll him you like him ... you know hes gotta like you... hes broke up you and your ex boyfriends before... talk to him alot and become friends.. then he'll remeber how much he liked and still does like you! ... hope i could help! :)
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